Time - when is the time right?

Hello!

As some of you may know I have a a person of interest (not necessarily romantic but that would be nice). So I was wondering when is the correct time to text him?

This is considering we have only met once and we texted each other a couple of times. But I am not sure what it is like on his side but for me I really want to get to know him better without stalking his social media.

In the past few times; I have been the first to initiate the coversaction (is that a problem?) and we would chat briefly. I don't really mind being the first to initiate conversation; but when would it be just right. Like every 2 hours is obviously kind of creepy. But 6 months is too far. So when it would it be just right? Or should I just wait and see if he would text me first?

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meemow123 #1
I would usually wait and see if he texts just to see whether he hasnt forgot about you. Thrn if he doesnt for three or four days then I would just text a hi? Im not sure ... Never been in any kibd of relationship or near ... Heehee
bobbatea #2
If you've been the one to contact first, wait until he texts you first this time!
There's nothing worse than being the only one initiating every conversation, and I think that if he's interested in getting to know you too, he should make the effort to text you first... You've shown him you're interested in talking and if he's interested too than there would be no harm in him messaging first.

There's no right or wrong though, so if you feel you want to text him first then go ahead and do so! Don't be scared because your intentions are all to get to know him better as a friend :)

Don't put pressure on yourself to do the 'correct' thing, because making a new friend should be fun!
verinchen #3
Try texting him now, and after the end of the conversation wait till he contacts you himself
xoxONEW #4
yeah wait if he texts first , try ignoring once , and then you can always text first it you want to , but don't be like a gum ,, okay ?? btw thought that you were a guy :P
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