One of my biggest pet peeves (Rant)

This has absolutely been pissing me off for the last couple of years and I am 100% positive that other non-Asian kpoppers have experienced this too.

I absolutely hate it when people find out that I am into Kpop and Asian guys because then for some reason they start thinking that I am ONLY into Asian /KOREAN/ men.

"Omg. That boy is soo hot..... oh wait, I dont know why I tell this to you, you only like Asian guys"

"Oh you wont like him because he isn't Korean"

WHEN HAVE I EVER SAID THAT?!!?

For white boys yes, I am extremely picky, but my friends especially seem to forget that I dated a hispanic and a black guy. OBVIOUSLY THOSE TWO ARE NOT ASIAN.

I haven't dated an Asian. Does that mean that is the only race I want? No.

If I end up with a Mexican, Black, Middle Eastern, Another flavor of vanilla (Swedish, czech, Polish, Irish...), OR SOMEONE WHO IS ING PURPLE, then I will end up with them because they make me happy- not because they are Asian -______-

It pisses me off to the point where I even considered giving up Kpop because I was tired of "You have yellow fever". Mind you, I began having crushes on Asian guys in 2011, prior to that, I threw them off to the side so its not like Ive been this extreme Weeaboo/Koreaboo my entire life.

Yes, I may be mainly attracted to Asian guys, BUT DOES THAT MEAN I CANT LOOK AT ANY OTHER RACE?!

People have me up the walls. Its like its a crime if I like one race because GOD FORBID I LIKE ANOTHER. Like you don't see me yelling at my other friends, "Why do you only date Mexican boys?" I dont because its rude and ignorant. Im not gonna and make fun of someone for liking someone outside their own race and ethnicity.

There is a part in a Youtube Video by my favorite Youtuber MilesJai that will definitely hit home with a few of you. It makes me laugh because this is seriously how some people act.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3HhoXtOz5oM

~Andy

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Heme-san #1 Oct 8, 2015 17:17:03

I can so relate to the video as a black girl in LA that LOVE's K-POP.
BTW lol told you that you couldn't stay away and you would be ranting about something soon.

mistressdean #2 Oct 8, 2015 16:28:13

AINGMEN! IT IS THE 21ST CENTURY!
And then there is this: From Asian person to another Asian person: "Oh, you're into kpop? Oh, so you only like Koreans?"
This -.-
I don't give a about my skin color. I don't care about yours. so wHY DO YOU CARE?

koreankimchibaby #3 Oct 8, 2015 09:07:04

OMG..IKRR
Im asian and everyone in my school are asian..but they all know that i like kpop and they will be like..
"Hey, u know theres this cute guy in the other class...u rlly have to go see him. Oh, wait i forgot, u only like korean guys.."
u, when the hell did i ever say that?!
i mean, it would be nice to date a korean guy BUT THAT DOESNT ING MEAN THAT I WONT HAVE ANY INTEREST IN ANOTHER ASIAN RACE...
And btw, preach it gurl! c:

WarriorBABYz #4 Oct 8, 2015 06:02:31

YES!! I am filipino so i am asian but i get this too idk i just find it so disgusting when people assume i only like asians because of kpop. i aint that shallow...

MissMinew #5 Oct 8, 2015 02:54:38

AMEN!
I've met it too. "Oh, so you like Asian so ... is that..?" NO, that's not the only race I look at goddammit! You can be any skin color and if you treat me right and I fall in love, then who the cares about your skin? T-T Jesus.... Yes, I'm attracted to asians. No, that doesn't mean I'm not attracted to anybody else.