guys, I'm so speechless right now. my bestfriend just got her heart broken ... and it really surprised me since she's never really liked someone or even cry bc of someone, she's that kind of girl that got a liking on someone but never wanted to be in relationship with them. she always shrugs her crushes if they giving some hints of interest with her or even dislike them completely if they did.

she chat me on line, saying that her crush is finally admits that he's in a relationship with her bestfriend at school (we went to different school) and even sent her a screenshot of their chat to her. this guys is really such a . I am sure that he's aware of my friend's feeling.

and I just can't tell her anything ... you know, I never really got my heart broken, I have this one crush to my 9th grade classmate, and I am still like him the same way even when all his exes and current girlfriend are all my great friends, I cried bc of him once. it still hurts me if I think much of him. but that's just it.

sometimes when ppl tell me secrets about how heartbroken they are I don't know what to tell them bc if I tell them to move on they probably be kinda mad at me saying moving on is hard, if I tell them to be strong they'd probably be mad too saying that I don't understand their feelings.

I just dont know? I am a fangirl since 6th grade, so that made me a really hardcore fangirl (I fangirl so hard anytime anywhere) so whenever I feel sad bc of him I just opens up pictures of my idols, videos on youtube, and their memes and I can completely be fine again, I never really think much about 'my feeelings' to someone or whenever I felt hurts, cause they don't really matter, what matters to me is my idols, and I am so thankful for that I don't get to be all sad or mope around just bc of boys.

but it's different for my bestfriends .. they don't have a powerful distraction like I do, so I dont really know and so confused what to advise them for this matter.