anyeong everyone!

hope you guys had an awesome kickstart to your weekday. how is everyone? sad? happy? i am fine as always :) so i hope everyone is too.

so last night i went to my friend's restaurant opening. well, what can i say, good food, good wine, good company, a good time :) about the restaurant, it was an awesome spot. right downtown where the crowd is. an elegent bar counter, exquisite wine...he did well for himself. well i'm sure none of you are interested actually so i'll just stop rambling about his restaurant here. 

At the opening i met some of his friends and aquaintance, even old college friends. so i met this one guy. he seemed a little too old for me but probably in his 30s but he was cute. he had that side smirk as his ultimate charm. undoubtly, there was an attraction. since the restaurant owner was a photography junkie naturally he would have photographer friends and that guy was one of em. lets just call him zack(not his real name dont worry). so zack was a natural flirt, it was easily seen. so we talked a lot about work, school, life, everything. it was like we've known each other since forever. and the night ended with an exchange of phone number and possibly a proper date? (ok i was hopeful)

then here comes the douchebag part. it was only after the party and zack left that i talked to my friend the restaurant owner, lets call him andrew.

Andrew: so i saw u talking all night with zack. what was that about?

me: i honestly think we hit it off well. he was attractive.

andrew: did u get his number?

me: yeah, but i havent contacted him yet. i mean guys call first right?

andrew: well yeah. but you do know zacck is married right?

me: WTF? douchebag!!!! 

and andrew showed me zack's facebook and it was ing true!!!! as a matter of fact he got married a few months ago.

so here it is a piece of advice for you younger girls, always investigate the guy. never fall for their charms no matter how badly you would want to hope that he really is the one. and always keep those few good friends by your side.

goodnight people :)