So If you are an Exo-L, i am sure you are aware of all the abuse and hatred that the members (Former and Current) are getting. The have been several points on my journey with Exo where i have almost given up with the fandom. The First, being when 'Kris' Left, Fans both Yifan and his fanbase. The second time it happened, It was Luhan, and then Tao being on haitus. Yes, i understand it is painful to have one of your favourite members leave, But there is no need for all the horrible things on their instagrams, or weibo of even twitter. 

First and foremost, I would like to remind you all that Wu Yifan and Lu Han are both human beings, with emotions. They can hurt, cry, bleed, and be disappointed in themselves. This can all be caused from your Comments! Yes, Even the bleeding! (though that could also be their own silliness of not looking where they are going as they are reading.) Tao is INJURED, If he carried on dancing... who knows how it would have affected the rest of his life?!

Secondly, I would like to remind you all that whilst they adore their fans and care for our feelings, It is their life. Let them Live it! It annoys me to no end when they are called traitors for leaving or getting hateful comments because of leaving. It is unnecessary and unfair to them. On the comment of hateful comments, these have even spread to current members. Lay, is trying to expand his skills to show his fans an improved version of himself. He is working so hard and he is carrying all of that plus hate for the fact he missed a lot of the call me baby promotions and that he is Chinese..... Really people? So what if he is the only Chinese member currently active? Does that mean that he is leaving Exo? No. It does not and you suggesting so is a form of Racism! Something i am completely against and you should all be too! Lay doesnt deserve the hate. So what if he still meets up with Kris and Luhan? Is he not allowed friends? They have been a huge part of his life, you can't just expect him to drop them.

Another member is Suho, Now you may be looking at this and thinking i have lost my marbles. But, The comments Suho gets, hurts me the most. He isn't my bias, but he is a loving and caring leader. He does so much for the members and the fans, and comments such as, "If Suho was a good leader, none of the members would have left." Hurts. So imagine this, it hurts me and Suho isn't my bias so imagine how he feels about this. And with Kris not wanting to be a member further, he no longer can share leader duties, the stress must be only something i can think of.

I would also like to use this time to point out how disappointed i am in English Exo-L's. When your favourite kpop group finally make an appearance in your home country, ofcourse you are going to be excited. But to that extent? you probably scared them off from ever returning! This was also a time i almost left.

Now a message to them, to reveal the reasons why i have stayed in this Fandom, no matter how much i have wanted to leave:

Though there are hard times, and very mean people in this world. I hope all twelve of you continue to do what makes YOU happy. It is your life to live, not the fans. Yes, we enjoy every song/dance/drama/movie/variety that you participate in but please remember that we can only enjoy this if you are happy too! WE ARE ONE! I Have not left this Fandom, because I understand this and I am here to prove to Exo that some fans aren't crazy. At least a few of us love each and every one of you 12 and we want to support your choices and let you know that is is okay to live your own life!!

No matter what happens, Family is still family! And that is what i believe this Fandom should be.... a family! So to close this rant, please remember the lyrics of their latest MV And Love them right! Including the 3 inactive members!