Loving someone and having them love you back is as much of a blessing as it is a curse. How lucky for you, to meet someone and fall in love with them as you watch them fall in love with you?
Pretty lucky I say.
But love is different from a person to another; people experience love in varying ways. Some never experience it, some fall in and out of it, some experience it like any other emotion, genuine, real yet trivial. But some others feel it too deeply, let it consume their hearts and souls, and slowly they forget who they are, they forget their lives in favor to live for the person holding their hearts, and only then will love become terrifying.