My hurt feeling

Recently my ex comeback to me and asked me to be his girlfriend again.i thought he was joking around but he swear if he serous about it.then i told him if he wants me comeback,he must prove it if he sincere about it.he proves it if he really serious.
But yesterday his bestfriend forces him to courts a girl.actually all of our friends have not idea about we getting back together.my ex overwhelmed when his bestfriend set a date with that girl.okay honestly that girl is better than me,his beatfriend say it in front of my face if this girl better than me (in jokes way,but it's still hurt a lot).so the girl who happened has a crush on my ex,and his bestfriend owed her so much.and what's it's really hurt,i am clearly a good friend with him but no one mind about my feeling.
my ex confuse cause his bestfriend clearly not approve we are getting back together.just cause i dump him (not in mean way) he thought i am a cruel one.honestly it's really hurt me,but i don't want to speak it loud cause it will become more complicated.
so my ex drags me out,so we can talk alone.he confessed if he just wants me and no one else.he blabbers about his plan for the weekend,he planned to spend it with me,etc.since everyone not mind about my hurt feeling,i thought i can't be selfish.i tell my ex to move to other girl,cause that girl has a lot more thing can make him more happy.and everyone won't approve if we together again.i tell him it's okay if he want comeback with me but it will more great if he thinks other feeling.and my ex choose to leave me,it's for the best right?
AceJulia 6 years ago
The relationship is NOT between you and his bestfriend. So it doesn't matter what others want and think. It's your life, your feelings and your decisions that matter. Friends can be nosy, but they should know their boundaries. And what your ex's friend did was incredibly nosy. It was him who owes the girl and not your ex. That he arranged a date for them without conuslting your ex is just really rude.
[deactivated] 6 years ago
I dont know much about relations but if your ex is a good guy then there is no harm in you two patching up. And like bangtang hyung said It is your life, its your decision. Always listening to the other won't give a sloution and if your ex still loves you then be with him cause maybe he wont be happy with the other girl. But if you think he can move then let him date the girl and who knows you too might find a boy who will help you move on. Sorry not so good in explaining. Lastly again i am just giving option or opinions but its upto you. Choose the way you want . Just don't regret after choosing cause at some point what you chose was what you wanted to do.
bangtan_hyung 6 years ago
If you still love him and he still love you, I don't see the harm of getting back together honestly. I'm sorry but it's kind of stupid to care much about what other people think of your relationship. They can give opinion but in the end it's your life, not their. And beside does your relationship bring any harm to them? If not then why you should let their opinion affect you. Unless if your relationship being harm to you or him physically and mentally. Then maybe you should listen. But yeah, it depends on the whole situation. Couple break and make up. It's nothing special, it's a phase for both to find the right one. I always believe that everyone are made for someone any way. So this is just an opinion, I'm not in the position to determine whether what you do are right or not. You should ask yourself whether it's right or not. Maybe if you're sure, then you won't feel any regret and just keep the good memories as a good memories.