IT HURTS SO BAD

Damn, it hurts so bad. I've this one guy best friend, I just loved the way he gave me adviced, treated me like I'm a special one, telling me not to find any boyfriend, telling me that he was there for me, but then I realized something when he haven't contacted each other for a quite long time, I tried to chase away the negative thought that he might forget me already bc I knew he was busy studying. But then I knew he got himself a girlfriend.

AND IT HURTS ME SO BAD

I'm okay with him having a girlfriend, I'm okay with him not telling me he got a girlfriend, but why he had to leave me hanging like ing like this? Fine, I understand if he doesn't want to talk to another girl bc he has a girlfriend bc girls tend to be jealous, but at least tell me, tell me that we can't be friends anymore.

IT HURTS!

IT IS ING HURT! 

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iluvbom #1
WTF. I mean, he could've just told you "I got a girlfriend". Not ignoring you for a long time, but don't worry we are here for you. But I will say not to be friends. Please don't hate on me. But then again, if you want to be friends with him again fine with me, pick your choice unnie. Little advice from your sister. ^.^
D_evie #2
OMG That is really ing !!! He should have given you an explanation, a reason why he stopped talking to you. You deserved at least that. I understand your feelings. It hurts when you have that one person that you thought would always stay by your side. That one person that made you happy and special, but did that to you.

But cheer up. You'll find that one person that will stay by your side, he left your side because he doesnt deserve it. Dont give up, your an awesome person and ING him if he doesnt know that!!!!!!!!!!!!!
MizzPeel0007 #3
He could have just told you about the girlfriend. Whatvis wronf with introducing ones girlfriend to their best friend?
I see nothing wrong, but then again people think differently. My advice is to give him the same treatment that he gave
to you.
Ariena96
#4
i'm actually going through the same thing now and have been through it before .. most guys are like that .. i'm actually doing the same thing he's doing to me right now .. just ignore him even if he started talking to you again bcuz after that he'll realize what he's lost ..
designed419
#5
>:(((((< sighs. this is why it's ty to have guy bestfriends tbh
DeerLove
#6
Treat him like he treated you..!! Just ignore him. He's a hypocrite for god's sake...!!
I know how you feel, and I hate those kind of friend the most.
exoHUnHAnexo #7
just ignore him ..
and treat him the way he's treating you , so he'll know how you feel (IF he really cares about you )
and if he by any chance say that he just doesnt want his girlfriend to be jealous ,
that's BULL ..
you two are BEST FRIENDS for crying out loud !!
is that too hard to explain to his girl ??

IGNORE HIM AND JUST WAIT OR LOOK FOR SOMEONE BETTER :))
and if you're still upset , EAT !!
MyaReen
#8
Well this looks like my situation no wonder it looks familiar. Anywhere u should kick his balls so he can't pregnant another girls 'said with a pocker face'
Hwaiting and remember! Kick his balls!!!!!
loveyfan95
#9
I think that you should ASK him Face to Face ASK him if its Soo easy to let go of a friend just because there is someone new i mean you are hurtig eitherway Soo let him think at least that is what i Would do i hate it when Things Arent clear Hope your Heart Fonds Peace
yifannie
#10
Ive been experiencing the same situation twice alr with the same person for almost 8 years, and I still love him up until now. ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ
Windeerland
#11
Boys are jerks sometimes lol I know I have no rights to say this but I guess you like him?
parfaitandrew #12
Author nim, hope you feel better soon
If you need someone to talk to, I will gladly listen.
Hwaiting