SOMEONE PLEASE HELP ME :'(

Sigh.. My girlfriend and I... We broke 4 months ago.. And right now, I still can't move on. I still cry myself to sleep every night. What do I do? Am I being to harsh on myself? Everytime I try to be happy I remember but I suddenly cry.. Am I under the depressing state? Sigh.. Oh please. Somebody help me. It's as if everyday is like a living hell to me. I just want to be happy.. I just want to be with her again but I know that's impssible now. It's simply too late.. I ing messed up.. ... I can't keep it in anymore. My heart just really mourns for her.. I remember her telling me that if she were born a man she would definitely marry me.. And you know what? I hate being commited, but when she told me that. I imagined my future  with her. Until now, I'm still imagining things.. Am I being delusional? I need help. I SERIOUSLY NEED HELP. Please.. Somebody please. :'(

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Snowflake21 #1
hmm well it's not really nice to see that this has 12 views right now and nobody commented....
But I know what you are going through and how you feel right now.
I am just going to speak for myself right now and what I think about this, it's okay to still cry and feel sad and feel everything bad, even after 4 months.
I mean, some people say it 'should' take you half the time you have been with someone to get over him/her, but that's just bullsh*.....
there is no 'right' time to get over someone. It's normal to feel this way. My first real boyfriend broke up with me 2,5 years ago, and I still cry about it sometimes at certain moments.
Like some days you can feel fine and distract yourself by doing things and then other days, when you hear something that reminds you of them, or hear a sad song, or read a relatable quote, see something on tv, see a happy couple ,... it just hits you. It's not your fault, you can't help it and I want you to remember that it is OKAY.
Take as much time as you need to try and get over it. Talk with friends,...about it, or if you're are not good at talking, write it down like here, or in a journal or anything that kind of helps you to 'get rid' of the bad feelings.
It is firstly important to accept that it is over. Because if you still have the feeling or the hope to reaelly really get back together again with that peson, it is not much going to help you. Of course I can't tell you to stop thinking or feeling that, but try to accept it first.
If you have, it's still okay to cry, feel bad, punch everyone and be angry at this world. If you still want to talk, you can message me :)
i hope i helped a bit xx
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