It feels like the whole ELF is in chaos right now.  We've gone divided into those who support Sungmin, those who wants him out, those who want out of the fandom and those who are still in the process of accepting it. I've never seen us like this. I know that in my previous blog, I said that I was hurt (still am), disappointed with the announcement but, at the end of the day, we can't do anything about it. What point would it give if you go bullying the girl? What good would it be if you slash your wrist? What good with it be if Sungmin gets out of Super Junior? Will it go and change anything? It will just bring everyone sadness.

I know that probably some who wants him out of the group thinks that being married and starting a family will hinder in their activties as a group. It may cause some troubles since the schedule is very hectic. I, sometimes, think about that too, to be honest. I mean being a family man would change his whole demeanor. But, I think it is always up to the person on how he manages his life especially if he wants both to  exist and work out for him. It takes a responsible person to take everything in a balance.

To those bullying the girl, what good would it bring? Sungmin will just defend her. You know, how he is such a knight in shining armor, that he would really defend her. You will just waste your time because if the love is strong then, good luck destroying that.

Slashing wrists?! I was like WTF, why would you even think of doing that? What good would it do? It would just leave a scar and loss of blood or even death if done wrongly. Did that solve anything? It just caused you pain and nothing else.

I think as fans, especially those Sungmin biased, that it will take for some of us to take it all in and accept it but, we don't need to do drastic things. It hurts,up until now, I feel that my chest is still so heavy everytime I hear his name. To be honest, I haven't listened to any Super Junior songs since last Tuesday since my mind knows when he is singing and I pay extra attention to that before. But, that doesn't mean I am leaving the fandom. I just need to have a little break but, I'm so happy to hear that a repackage album and a comeback is on the way.

People that are sad, angry, in pain and greiving sometimes think bad thoughts to get back to the people that had hurt them. But, remember to never make a decision when you are clouded by those emotions. They always make us regret it afterwards. To be honest, I can't bring myself to say "Be happy, Sungmin" or "Best Wishes" or even "Congratulations" but, I won't force myself to do that. I know that in time, I can but, now that I feel the pain, I'll just shut up and try to do other things than worry about useless things. Because, it's a waste of time and it won't really change anything but, cause pain for me and Sungmin and Super Junior.

Let us console and understand one another and remember that we are one big family. We shouldn't judge those who are having a hard time accepting and those who found it easier to accept. We should be there and just give them some advice and time to grieve and digest everything.

WE ARE A FAMILY LINKED BY SUPER JUNIOR!