Love or Infatuation?

First of all, who are in love out there? 

Actually, I don't know what came into my mind and write this short stupid blog now. I know a lot of you had/have already their boyfriends already. For me, I can say I had and at the same time I didn't. I know what love is but at the moment, I'm really confused.

Has love already made you gone crazy for long? 

Can you REALLY differentiate Love from Infatuation? Yeah, Infatuation is only temporary but, eh?

I just want to know your opinions and your own defintion of love and infatuation out there! :) 

I hope someone will reply :) If there will be none, it's alright! :) I just want to know your point of view :)

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crufjeff #1
Honestly speaking, to me love doesn't always have to come out from relationships and all. It's that feeling you have towards someone that gives you the best little moments in life. But not just through happiness but also, at the same time sharing your tears and hardship as you proceed in living. To give a mushy explaination on love in sense of relationship, relationship, I'm completely out of place. But I did feel that... 'love' once, it felt different than previous... Encounters. But it didn't really come out well. My friend once asked me the same question and she said my definition is more like happiness. Maybe so but that's how I feel and understand love. For me right now, I'm sticking with that perspective. Possibly because I'm still very much naive in so called 'relationships'. <br />
Hope that helps!
minholuv #2
LOL. You know, I've asked myself the same question soooo many times. I always wondered how to differentiate those two. Trust me, I've mixed those two up and got into trouble so many times. :| But I think I should be able to tell the difference by now. Well I guess infatuation is when you like a person for just a short amount of time as in when you _just_ got into a relationsip with someone and it feels like bliss but then after like 7 months (yes it can last 7 months XP) it wears off. You don't feel as happy being with him anymore and you start to doubt if you actually like him. Meanwhile love lasts way longer. Even though there will be times when you question yourlself, you'll always feel like he's the one. I hope I'm of help. :P I'm just saying this from little experience that I had. LOL. Please don't hate me if I'm wrong. And you can msg me if you want to talk more about it. I've been in your situation before. LOL. :) <3
OnlyDubuStar #3
@icemochi18: that's why Love is so complicated :/ Yeah i know that if you like someone for more than 4 months, it's already love and not infatuation. But part of me doesn't believe in it :/
icemochi18 #4
I DON'T KNOW, SWEETIE. APPARENTLY IF YOU LIKED SOMEONE FOR MORE THAN 4 MONTHS IT MEANS YOU LOVED THEM BUT FOR ME IT'S JUST INFATUATION AND NOW IM REALLY CONFUSED ):
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