HAZARDOUS ROLEPLAYERS! LOOK OUT ADMINS!
I don't usually do this but let me rant in here just this once. This is to all the roleplay admins.
Don't you just freaking hate it when you've worked your off to make the rp active and alive? you did your very very best to keep the place happy and avoid some problems. THEN IT WILL TAKE ONE PERSON. JUST FREAKING ONE PERSON TO DESTROY EVERY EFFORT YOU DID! EVERYTHING YOU DID!
Im an admin in this rp and we just reopened after a year. Everything was in line, we gained 100+ members in just 3 months and it is one of the happiest thing for an admin. Then there's this rper who entered the rp. She rped as Minah and we became good friends-- or at least that's what i thought. I always talk to her, i trusted her with all my secrets and i treated her as my best friend. I EVEN MADE HER A CO-ADMIN!! i trusted her that much. But after i made her an admin, she changed. She started telling me i am a flirt and she told that i told her that ALL the guys like me-- including her boyfriend..
Okay let me clear things up, first i opened up to her about these two guys liking me and i don't know what to do. Then she blurted out the flirt thing. Hearing it from her, i thought it was a friendly joke so i shrugged it off. I just laugh when she say those stuff and explain that there's a thin line between being friendly and flirting. Dude i don't even hold hands with these guys -_- . Few days later, i found out these guys started hating me .-. and im like-- WTF i didn't do anything man-- i just told them i wasn't ready to be in a relationship.. upon thorough investigation, i found out that she was telling people that im a flirt and i give them false hope then leave them. I LEFT MY OWN RP BECAUSE I WAS TOO HURT! when you find out your best friend betrayed you, you just feel so damn hurt and mad at the same time that i cried so hard. Thanks to my other friends who consoled me. Yeah i came back to the rp and i just ignored her because i thought she stopped-- but i noticed how the newbies became cold to me and i was really confused because we really haven't talked much. Then i found out from my trusted friends that she's spreading false rumors about me and making these newbies judge me without knowing me first. I tried to talk to these people and some did listen so i was able to explain my side and they did confirm about what she was doing to me. I did try to talk to her but she won't talk to me like WTH right?
This is not all. I started receiving pm from other rpers about her talking too much about RL in pm and being all competitive and stuff. She will always complain about her life but then make it sound like she has the perfect life. For example, she will complain about how she hates her father for not buying her an iPhone then she will tell you she's studying somewhere in America and she's a relative of the president in her country then she will tell you she's poor and she's tired of her life then tell you she has a boyfriend who's good at dancing and girls are all over him then she will say she has a "fiance" in your country--- .-. also if you say you can speak Japanese, she'll also tell you she can. If you can sing, she can also sing. If you're studying medicine, she is also studying medicine. But in her aff, she's studying law... that's what the complains were all about. I still didn't call her off because i thought she just have a psychological problem (inferiority complex).
BUT SHE DIDN'T STOP THERE!
After gathering enough evidences, i finally decided to confront her about all the things she's saying behind my back. But all she can say is "respect my decision" (decision means she's leaving). I asked her multiple times and told her that doing so (leaving) won't fix anything. Now im not even mad because im usually calm when confronting people. But yeah.. she didn't really answer my question.. she just blocked my fb so i decided to blacklist her out of the rp.
You all think it will stop cuz finally she's gone yay amen!
But unfortunately, it didn't. She brought a lot of people with her. Those people who believed her lies. She told these people that she's leaving because im telling bad stuff about her-- okay so now im the bad guy.. She also said im a -- then i found out that while she was engaged, pregnant with twins too, she cheated with another guy and even kissed him and said she loves him-- The others who stayed, continued hating me and i can't talk to them because they just freaking seenzone me tbh.
Now i see her in every rp, including the ones im in. i just wish she won't do what she did to me in these rps. but admins, please keep all your senses open. Now my rp is inactive and im doing my best to again bring it back to life.
BTW I FOUND OUT SHE DID ALL THESE BECAUSE SHE WANTS THE GUYS TO LIKE HER INSTEAD
that's all.. sorry for ranting.. i can't show you print screens too cuz she blocked me.
OH AND SHE SAID SHE'LL UNDERGO SURGERY TOO AND IT'S FATAL--- WHICH I FOUND OUT NOT TRUE
UPDATE 09/29/14
SHE WAS CAUGHT CONTACTING FORMER MEMBERS OF OUR RP AND BADMOUTHING THE RP AND OTHER MEMBERS.
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