Attention All Roleplayers And Future Dibians!!

Hello!! ^^ As many of you know, cyber bullying is becoming a major issue that affects almost every country in the world. It may happen to you, your siblings or your close friend and family members. Cyber bullying is just what it sounds like, bullying through using internet applications. Spreading gossip through email or other networking sites, sending inappropiate pictures to someone can be examples of cyber bullying. Now that we are all clear, let us get to the main point of this blog.

The roleplay I admin at is called Dibidibidis Roleplay and it has been a victim of cyber bullying. After the first sentence you are proabbly thinking "Oh this girl is just seeking for attention", "oh this girl is trying to rat out another girl she hates". It is not that case. I have been a victim of cyber bullying for years and Im sure a lot of you readers have been as well. The purpose of this blog is to raise awareness and warn you guys that your roleplay might be at risk of getting people like these. This person treatened to destroy my rp and spread rumours about my rp to other roleplays out there. That is why I do not want any of you readers to go through the same situation. That is the purpose for this blog. You don't have to read the whole thing, I know it can be a pain in the . But I appreciate each and every single person who took the time to scroll through this long blog. Thank you!


Exhibit One

The print screens below show my conversation with Park Jihyun. We have a Sulli in our roleplay and she was getting a lot of hate asks in her ask fm lately. So the admins wanted to run an investigation. We asked Sulli who she might think that the suspects might be (proof is at the bottom). Sulli replied by saying that it might be Lee jihyun. Thus, to confirm whether or not it was her I had to go ask Jihyun. And that is where our conversation started. We never got to find out who was sending Sulli the hate asks. 

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Up in those print screens I highlighted some main parts that seemed to be offesive and out of tthe conversation. Screaming, swearing, implying words like "ing ", "bipolar" , "you will break", "you are an accident" and a "dog" are included. I also caught her not being honest about many things. If you read the beginning of the conversation she said her and Sulli were "friends". But when I asked Sulli if they were this is how she responded.

 

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In that conversation she also said her and Yuda Xiao (chinese model) were friends as well. However when I asked Yuda that didnt turn  out to be true. 

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Exhibit Two 

At the end, Jihyun reached her breaking point and bashed on every single person she saw in her sight. Both her enemies (jongjin) and friends (Jimin, Hyori).

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After that incident admin Yoseob in Dibidibidis roleplay decided to ban Park Jihyun.

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Exhibit Three

In the end she got banned from the roleplay. She was the first and only one so far who is banned from our rp. Therefore we deicded to block her facebook and she decied to do the same. But she didnt't stop there. After getting banned she started to take her bullying on ask fm. She sent hate asks to others members of the roleplay via ask fm. Like Qri (T-ara), Jongjin (ulzzang) and of course admin GD.

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So as you can see from the last screen cap, she said she started to spread gossip about Dibidibidis in others roleplays as she promised. After that incident what she started to do was join different roleplays, spread rumours about Dibidibidis and then leave that roleplay and move on to another one. 

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Exhibit Four

After that (from the print screen above), she moved on to another roleplay. In this roleplay she plotted up a different story. In the print screens below she is rping as Himchan. We know this because her typist is a big fan of Kim Himchan from B.A.P as it says so on her About Me section. She is saying that admin GD was the one who bullied and "friend". He told her friend to "go to hell" and to a point where she wanted to suicide. I personally do not recall admin GD to bully anyone in his entire life. Rather he was the one who was the target of getting bullied (like the print screens abbove). If you do know a friend who knows Park Jihyun and was bullied by admin GD then please coment below with your proof. 

The highlighted parts tell us how these print screens that totally contradict with what she did in Dibi Rp, If you read it closely then you will see how she said she "recently" got kicked out but she also said she was the "old old old lay back then." Sounds sispocious? Yes it does. Our probability is that Himchan might be referring to herself as a "friend" so she can get an excuse to tell her story. She joined our rp originally as Himchan before, and her biggest bias is Himchan (accroding to her about me section). She also said her friend Park Jihyun was the one getting bullied and teased. But was that really what you saw from the screen caps at the beginning? If you read even closer then you'll see that Suzy caught on to the fishy part of her story but she decided to keep quiet. So as you can see there are two sides to this situation. However the way she explained the story in these following screen caps seemed oddly suspicious.

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After this conversation, Himchan decided to leave the roleplay. I heard about this whole situation from two friends of mine who is in the same rp as Himchan. Accroding to them, she left the rp after a few hours and left a bad message.

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Exhibit Five

Did it end after that? No it didn't. A short while after she left as Himchan, I (GD) logged onto my ask FM account to find these asks.

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And with that I am going to conclude my blog. Please keep in mind that we are only doing this to cause awareness of cyber bullying in roleplays. We are not here to sue anyone. We are not doing this to get attention, we are not bashing, we have solid proof to show you our point of view. You may choose to believe us or not believe us. If Park Jihyun  is your friend and you go against whatever we said then dont hesitate to comment below with your screencaps as proof.

Thank you for reading our blog! I hope you are convinced that cyber bullying is a major ussue happening in various (not just Dibidibidis) roleplays. People like these cause a bad repuation for your roleplay, which makes it dead and eventually it can get shut down. I also hope you will be willing to spread the word as well and protect your own roleplays. 

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FullmetalTitan
#1
I'm late on this and I know I don't know you...but that just when some people join an rp just to create OOC drama for others. I'm cool with some in character drama just so long as it doesn't escalate such as what happened there :( I'm sorry you had to deal with an unruly rper like that *sighs* We join rps to get away from that stuff not to get dragged into it online. I don't tolerate that stuff in my rps not at all: Being called things like that is a terrible feeling I hope this person feels ashamed of herself/himself for how they acted later on. Bullying, hating someone for a stupid reason needs to stop. People already have enough real life drama we don't need that crap on the internet.
fearless_elfzy
#2
Wow.... how many face shes got??
Too much drama she cause.. well i respect you admin GD .... and sulli poor you.. i felt like want to join this rp xD
xStarlightnightx
#3
wow.. just wow .__.
I heard a lot of good things about Dibi tbh but I just saw this in LARP and tbh I am glad I read through that whole thing.
No one should suffer that much hate even good people but its life :c
I hope you guys don't go through this again cause no RP should be put down just because some RPer doesn't know when to quit with the lies.
But I will admit the Jihyun RPer does sound familiar in a RP I use to be in, but I don't remember the name now since it was 4 years ago.
Stay strong both the RP and the admins c:
Baekhyun0624 #4
OH WAIT I FORGOT--
-Elysium's Sulli/Shoelace/Shoenicorn/Shoelli/Shoeshi/Sushi
Stay strong <3 <3
Baekhyun0624 #5
:c That's just ugh. So beyond rude.
I go to Elysium RP btw (look at the comment below mine xD)
And stay strongggggg <3 /hugs all of you virtually
yumiwumi
#6
Well holy .

To Jihyun/Himchan/whoever you are;
I hope you stop this madness.

Moral of the day;
Know your limits.
YuriKwon88
#7
This is really horrible T_T
To Admin GD; stay strong <3
Stay Strong Dibi, and you can all overcome this together! 5thing!

- (elysium's shinyeong ouo)
Hulalalo #8
Hi,

I found this blog posted by our previous head admin in the roleplay I am currently in. http://i.imgur.com/bbC15xD.png?1
I just want to say that posting this blog makes rpers aware, and we're thankful. We also send our support to all admins, dibians, and specially GD who have been through a lot. Stay strong dibi!

- Elysium's Joy
mahala
#9
I'm the head admin of Ely Society rp, and our Founder Admin was bashed by a member as well, because of a mistake of kicking her out. WHICH she ranted and bashed publicly ON OUR FOUNDER'S TIMELINE. Admins are not perfect, and we make mistakes. I'm actually really glad you posted this blog because finally someone understands. ; ;
stay strong dibi. <3 kk.
DaraLove
#10
I was in Dibi. awhile back as Jia and this is...insane tbh. I too have had a rp of my own and had a person do something similar to this. That is completely unnecessary. To admin GD I'm sure you don't remember me when I was there but do stay strong and don't listen to this child's nonsense. Dibi rp is a great rp. I've been even wanting to rejoin and now I will. I was just scrolling through the rp I'm in now and they were talking about this and said how stupid this girl is behaving. Stay strong Dibi <3 every time your rp is mentioned around me its only good things said and I know through experience. Expect me to be apart of your lovely family again soon ^^
Lee_So_Yeong
#11
I will admit that my initial feelings towards Dibi were negative after.Himchan said that they kicked him out for no reason. But he left so soon saying that our rp wasnt his style. Like why join in the first place if its not your.style? But after reading all of this, I really cant believe someone would be so terrible and awful to other people just trying to have dramaless, stressless fun. u.u

Who ever admin Jiyoung is, I really.giving him props for.being so strong and giving Jihyun a chance. And from what I can tell, he seems like a very nice and wonderful person. Regardless of how strong people can be, I really.hope Jiyoung wont take what Jihyun said to heart.

Thank you for this post, it really opened my eyes.

To whoever Jihyun/Himchan is, I really.hope you learn to start treating people withmore respect and be nice. Did your parents really raise you to treat other HUMAN BEINGS so awfully? Everyone has their own problems and they dont need someone like you to insult them and drag them down even lower. Would you really be able to be as strong as Jiyoung if someone was saying such awful things to you? Please, grow a heart, and stop hurting others. Youre really.gaining nothing but a bad reputation. Its sad that you have to be used as an example for cyber bullying. I really hope you.change because damn, the real world will be a really ugly place for you if you dont. Smile, be happy, be nice. :)

To all of the other people she has affected, remember, there are a lot of.other people that love you and care for.you. So dont let.someone with a bad attitude bring you down. I'm sorry you had to endure.the things she said to you, buf you wont have anything to worry about anymore~ Keep your head up! Each and everyone of you are wonderful people. <3

/laaaa such a long speech sobs/

(yeonju from lederp)
KMH_0628 #12
Hi this is Eyoung and bby I'm sorry for being inactive.. Can I just know what her username in aff pls because I also have an RP and I wanted to be careful and not let a person like this again in the place.. I just banned a person who did the same thing.. Spread false rumors about the admin and also idk if it's true or not but told us she's undergoing surgery or smthn.. Anyways let's all be careful in dealing with people like this because we don't know what they're capable of.. Prolly waking up our demons..