My sister is...

I'm worried right now, I'm not sure if I'm a bad sister or what, but... my sister(older one) had a fight with my mom, and with me too(sort of). I just want to clear something: I needed to do my homework, so I went to my sister's bedroom(we share bedroom), but realized teh door was closed, so I knocked the door about a thousand times, she always locks the door of her bedroom, and started telling her to open it, so after what seemed like forever she opened it and yelled at me and told me that it wasn't my bedroom, so she could kick me out if she wanted to, then Mika(my little sister) came along and that's when things got tougher, my sister told me togo away and that I was bothering her because I was mean? so she held my collar and threw me hard towards the staircase, I-ALMOST-FELL, then my mom came because she heard me screaming and my sister(the older one) started throwing all the books from the mini-library towards the floor, after she threw almost all of them she yelled at my mom and my mom yelled back, I went back to my little sister's bedroom (the computer is there, i needed to do my homework) and that's when my older sister suddenly went downstairs, my mom back to the kitchen and Mika to the 2nd floor, Apparantly in one of thos emoments my loder sister jumped from the 2nd floor towards the entrance so she could "scape"? nd my little sister(Mika) who is around 7 saw her jumping, but though it was the neighbour, as if it was that hard to recognize my older sister, and then we all looked for her, and up until now we don't know where she is, she left at 7:00 PM (Lima. Peru time) and it's been 1 hour since then, I hope she either goes to my dad's house or comes back, I'm really worried, I feel like if something happens to her it'll be my fault, as I was the one who went to her bedroom at first.

PLEASE GOD, don't let anything bad happen to her

any ideas of where seh could be?

I'm really worried right now,

HELPPPPPP

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n_n0106 #1 Sep 19, 2014 07:36:42

I'm sorry but how is it your fault when it's your bedroom as well? you shouldn't have to ask permission to go into your bedroom. I'm pretty sure she'll be fine. The only place you know she'll go to is either her father's house or going back to your house. Either or, she'll come back if not..check at her friend's house. If she doesn't return within 24 hours, call the police and file a missing report....

catyang #2 Sep 10, 2014 16:16:32

Hello miss. :) So your situation right now is complicating and hard. Yes you are having a hard time finding your sister, but don't blame it on you. It's your room as well. Now first off, if she has issues, ask her about it. Once in a while (if she comes back home) ask her how her day was. Have a little sister-to-sister time and just talk about life. If she can open up to you, that's great. If she can't open up, be patient and wait. If your sister and mother are having some issues as well, ask your mom about it. just tell her that you are just worried about your sister (if that works as well). It will be hard trying to overcome these obstacles during life, but in the end, you learn something and there is a meaning to it. Maybe your sister is going through something hard that she doesn't want to tell people about right at the moment. But she will break her shell if you are a more warming (if you are, try being more...?) sister. Another tip, don't bang on the door like you need to pee really bad and there's only one bathroom and someone's in there. I have to be honest, I have a brother who will get super annoyed because of what I do. Somethings like this. So be patient and keep calm. And just a reminder that I already said, it's not your fault. You had nothing to do with it. you were just knocking on the door a lot and she wouldn't open the door. So don't blame yourself about these things.