"People fall in love with a person, not a gender"

"People fall in love with a person, not a gender."

-Darren Criss-

 

Well, this quote really caught my attention.

And i find it really interesting.

This quote really pinpoint something right? It definitely describes same- relationship. And i agree to this saying.

Since i become a fan of the South Korean girl group, SNSD or also known as Girls' Generation, and a shipper of TaeNy, i became open to such issues involving relationship between two people with the same gender.

Like what darren Criss said, people fall in love with a person and not to their gender.

So what if we fall in love with the people who has the same gender as us. I know, it is wrong in everybody's eyes and it is against God's law, but we can't control our heart. We can't choose the person that we should love.

Others may not understand it but who are they to judge? Are they God? No! We are already living in the new generation. Everything is already changing in our world.

And there's nothing we can do about it except accepting it. Accept the changes, willingly or unwillingly. Although, i am not in the right position to tell this but accepting it will be more easier and less complications. Maybe at first, it will be hard. It's only natural, especially if you re not used to this kind of situation.

Change is the only constant thing in this world.

Having a relationship with the same as yours is not bad. Especially if there is love existing between the two of you.

People may judge and judge. Throwing bashes and nasty comments, but it's only their opinion. You don't need to give a f*** about their ranting.

It's your own life and you are the only one that can run it. Not other people and not even your parents.

Each and everyone us has this free will given by God. We have the say on whatever we decide and however do we want to do with our lives.

 

why do i suddenly rant about this? we'll thanks to my teacher for bringing up such controversial issue.

 

I don't mind talking about it, especially during class, but i'm just pissed off on the things she said against same- relationship.

She was just asking our opinions about it, then i volunteered to gave my thoughts, saying that i think having a relationship with the same gender as you is not bad as long as you love each other. After saying my opinion, she starts blabbering about how my ideas is so wrong and same- relationship is against the society's norms. Well, i tried defending it to her but she keeps on pushing that it is wrong and it's against the doctrine of the church and blah blah blah...

Since i thought that whatever reason i may gave is just wrong to her, i just kept my mouth shut. She would never understand anyway.

After our class, i kept on asking opinions from my classmates and friends about it. Some of them are totally against it and some just agreed to it.

That's their own opinion and for those who are against of it, i did not try to explain myself.

We are all entitled with our own opinions and beliefs right.

We dpn't need to create ruckus on such things.

 

All we have to do is just accept it, understand it and respect it.

 

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lilith9999 #1
Hi! Good thoughts, however everybody don't live in a country allowing these relationship, so God or not...
fanficsarelife
#2
Actually homouals are not against God's will. God loves all his children and it is misquoted that he says being gay is a sin. Even in the animal kingdom there are many species who are born gay. It is God's natural way of population control and anyone who says otherwise is just spiteful/ignorant.

Some of the nicest, most pure people I have ever met happen to also be gay. So there is nothing wrong with it.
guardianangel_love88
#3
@kyutieyukina God loves all his children, and even though some of us love someone of the opposite .
even though i think that it's not what God exactly wanted (I mean, he did want a man and a women together for many reasons) but I think that as long as it's not about , and real, mental love, (if you know what I'm saying) and you have a relationship with God in it, i think it's aok. I mean, he'll always love, no matter what!
I don't retaliate or hate anyone who's gay (my aunts are) so i'm not judging or trying be a hater. As long as there's good intentions, and God's in the picture, I'm all for it! So you go girl! Show your teacher who's boss! XD