even though this is kinda like a late topic, i still wanna put my opinion out there, not that any of you guys are curious. 

anyway, at first, i was really against the whole "baektae" couple. i honestly think it was because of jealousy because i mean, who doesn't want to be with either one of them? two amazing, outstanding vocalists as a couple, how perfect. but now, i'm just really happy for them. i like both of them individually, so why can't i like them together? 

the only thing i disagree with is their actions towards it. how they had gotten caught so easily, as if they wanted to. for example, staying in well lit areas, even if they were in a car. and also, i do get that they're a couple and want to go out, but they're also idols and they need to be more careful. and, especially for getting "caught" so early in baekhyun's (in exo's) career. compared to snsd, they're actually pretty new, so i dont know why they couldn't be more careful and secretive. 

and baekhyun going out at night and stuff. i mean, (i don't know their life or schedule, but this is my opinion) especially if you were getting prepared for your comeback, as well as your concert, don't you think relationships can wait? so i just think they were being selfish. it bothered me a bit that he was going out at night because even though i know he loves s, it seemed as if his focus was on taeyeon, rather than his band whose members are going through a lot (especially m, ex. kris, lay) and problems with sasaengs. 

As for taeyeon, i felt bad because she had apologized to her fans and exo's for going out with him. i personally think she shouldn't have apologized, because it is her life and it is baekhyun's life and, just saying "sorry" for loving someone really is messed up. i don't think it's our job as fans to tell them what they should do with their life, but stand by them with encouraging words and love and support. don't you think it's sad for someone to have to feel guilty for going out with someone just because fans are against it? even though that is society, we don't always have to go along with it. 

though i am disappointed at their decisions, i am cheering them on and hoping for the best for the both of them. hopefully everyone will continue to love the both of them while they're loving each other. they probably want that too.