Okay this post os going to be a little lengthy but bear with me...

I am seriously getting tired of the Exo fandom right now. I'm in the fandom but it just breaks my heart to see my own fandom hurting our idols. The idols that we admire and love so much. WHY? Just why? Why must the fans do all these things that causes hurt to our own oppas? SIgh, let me address the issue one by one, starting with Baekhyun dating Taeyeon issue.

Okay first of all,

WHAT IS WRONG WITH YOU PEOPLE?

So, Exo's Baekhyun has decided to date someone. And that someone apparently seems to be his own ideal type Taeyeon of SNSD. So, he broke his promise; the one where he said for EXO, he would date only when he reaches the age of 35. SO WHAT? Uh, FYI people, he's human too, he makes mistakes. But I don't see why dating someone that he likes would be such a mistake! Why can't you guys be happy for him instead? True, EXO's job is to make the fans happy. But they have feelings too. They deserve to be happy too. So why can't some of you just give him the happiness he deserves?

Now, I go on the internet and I see people speculating that  this was all a staged act from SM. And my first thought was; how could you guys even come up with such speculations?! Okay, even if it was a staged act, just to let the people forget about the whole Kris leaving EXO thing, WHY HATE ON BAEKHYUN AND TAEYEON? They did nothing wrong. They're merely just pawns of the industry. They need to do everything they can to survive in the industry too. Knowing SM, who has had a bad reputation at handling these kinds of things, yes, you guys can curse and swear at the company all you want, but NOT THE IDOLS. Like I said, they're merely pawns in the industry.

I think that even if this whole Baekyeon thing wasn't staged, you guys would try to come up with more and more speculations to deny the fact that these two people are genuinely in love. Just because some of you could not accept the fact that your bias is in a relationship. Just like when you found out that your crush is dating someone else. You'd feel so upset right? And what would you do to make yourself feel better? You tell yourself that 'They don't look good together.' or 'Something must be up, those two can't possibly be in love with each other.' and all the other nonsense. Believe me, I was there (Junhyung and Hara dating scandal).

And the most upsetting thing for me is that some of you may forgive Baekhyun for dating, but you guys still send hate towards Taeyeon. She's a human being with feelings too you know. The both of them may not be my bias, but I support them in whatever they do. They're adults. They're wise enough to know what they're doing. I mean, what do you expect? When people fall in love, they can't help it. And even if this thing was staged, harsh words like 'LIAR' or 'TRAITOR' said to them can feel like knives piercing on their backs. Because they believed that no matter what happens, their fans would always be there to support them. What are they supposed to do if their own fans can't even behave maturely and give them the support they need?

What I'm trying to say is, staged or not staged, the way some of you are treating Baekhyun right now is really disgusting. That's not what fans are supposed to do. EXO keeps us happy, and us FANS should keep them happy by supporting them in whatever they decide to do with their lives. Common sense.

Okay, now I'm going to move on to Luhan's issue.

I seem to be saying this alot in this blog post. IDOLS ARE HUMANS TOO. What the hell was that fan thinking? What would he/she gain from putting a camera in the room? How would you like it if someone were to put a camera in your room and watch your every move huh? Do unto others what you want others to do unto you. Very popular phrase. Seriously, where is your respect? And this is not the only case that has happened to EXO. Of course there are other more ridiculous cases like the selling of D.O's briefs, crowding around the boys when they're at the airport, creating rumors about them, waiting in front of their dorms etc. These acts are utterly disgusting and because of some of you guys in the fandom, the rest of us are getting hate from the other fandoms. Why are some of you guys behaving like some obsessed freaks? Aren't you ashamed? What do you think the members would think of you? All these acts won't make EXO love you, instead it makes them more hateful towards you. Yes, I understand that you want to stand out from all the other fans so that EXO would notice you. You did, actually. EXO do notice you. But they are AFRAID and DISGUSTED by your acts. Please, this part of the EXO fandom, the part that keeps causing hurt to our beloved boys, please stop. 

Okay, now that that's is settled, I'd just like to say that whatever that I have mentioned in this post is just merely my opinion on the mentioned issues above. Some of you may disagree, but like I said, it's only my opinion. But then again, I really would like to know what some of you guys think of these situation, or generally the EXO fandom. I would like to hear the opinions of others.

Lastly, my wish for the EXO fandom is to be able to at least, be a fandom that I'm proud to be in. Not a fandom that is known for it's sasaeng fans, but a fandom known for it's love and care for their oppas. I really feel that we should make the boys feel proud for having fans like us.