My thoughts on Baekyeon.

 

 

Before reading this bear in mind that I became a SONE before a Galaxy/EXOtic


I do NOT like SNSD more than EXO 


I do NOT like EXO more than SNSD
 


I do not have a bias in SNSD but I lean more towards Hyoyeon and Tiffany. 



My bias in EXO is Oh Sehun followed by Kim Jongdae (Chen)




So when I read this I first thought that it was a joke.



It sounded so unreal and ridiculous. It still sounds. I love Taeyeon and I love Baekhyun.
 


When Yoona started dating I was fine with it.


When Sooyoung started dating I was fine with it.

 

When Tiffany started dating I hesitated (since she's close to being my bias) but I was eventually fine with it. 



When Taeyeon and Baekhyun started dating I was shocked. 



Not the fact that either of them are dating but that it was THEM. No offence and I mean it but this couple is the most horrible, ridiculous and unreasonable couple I've ever seen in kpop. I don't think I've ever seen something worse. 

 


This is my opinion. 

Trust me I tried shipping them. 


This is not possible for me.


I don't have a problem with boy/girl shipping knowing that I ship Troublemaker hard

 


I was an Galaxy/EXOtic since debut. 


Baekhyun is not my bias but I've seen this boy growing up. 
 


From Teaser to History/WIL Era

From History/WIL to MAMA

From MAMA to Wolf

From Wolf to Growl

From Growl to MID 

From MID to the worst era I've ever experienced Overdose. 
 


I've seen Baekhyun when he was holding shakily his microphone up. 
 


When he nervously smiled to keep calm. 



When he was too scared to be disliked by public. 
 



I don't think of Exo as my boyfriends.


I don't think of my bias as my boyfriend.

 


EXO are my little babies and my bias is my favorite baby.


I like it to take care of them. 


This is coming from a 17 years old girl. 


I'm serious.




For those 'Baekyeol shippers' that say that Baekyeol has sunk shame on you. 


I'm ashamed to stan the same group as you.
 


Yes you can leave an OTP if you don't like it anymore. Nobody forces you to like a certain pairing. But saying that it is dead and has sunk is just embarrassing.



What if Baekhyun and Taeyeon break up tomorrow? 


What if there will be tons of Baekyeol moments afterwards? 


Will you be a Baekyeol shipper again? 


If your answer is yes then you were NEVER a Baekyeol shipper to begin with. 


You only liked two boys together under certain circumstances and then you left them.


This is sad. 
 



Sometimes I wish that EXO was as mature as B.A.P 
 


Those 6 boys that don't appear to have debuted at the same year as EXO. 
 


Sometimes I wish that I can become a BABY but B.A.P is not EXO. 

 


In B.A.P there is no Sehun.


In B.A.P there is no Luhan. 


Or D.O or Kai or Xiumin or Kris or Tao or Chanyeol or Chen or Suho or Lay


Or Baekhyun. 




Baekhyun you disappointed me to no end. We all knew that Taeyeon was your favorite SNSD member and when all fans are attacking her you're not doing anything. 
 

 


You just sit there and wait for it all to be over. 
 

 


I don't know what really is going on  but judging from your actions and Taeyeon's Twitter updates I dislike both of you more. SM is just too shady to talk about. I KNOW for fact that SM is using both of you to cover something up. I'm very very sure that your relationship will not last long. 
 


If it will, then you both are blind to not see your fans' hearts. 
 


Nobody prevents you from dating we would be happy for you but being stupid enough to go outside and let pictures taken is very risky and desperate. 



Both of you are desperate. 



Taeyeon was my dorky leader. 

 



And what is she now? 





A girl that keeps on apologizing for nothing. She says sorry and sorry but for what? You don't know why we are suffering Taeyeon. You just apologize for something you don't even know. You say that we are angry and hurt. Why? Because your and Baekhyun's actions left us speechless. If you knew that this would happen then why would you let it happen? 
 



Taeyeon I don't know anymore.



I used to look up to you.
 


You used to be the big sister who took care of SNSD.



You once said that you don't want to be a leader.



You said that you don't think you have the skills. 
 


You said that you are anyways months apart from most of the other girls. 
 


You didn't see the point of being the leader.
 


You felt burdened and pressured.
 

 

BUT you accepted because you knew that someone had to do that. 


This was the first time I felt so damn proud to be your fan.
 


I was so so proud to say that this responsible girl was a member of SNSD.
 


When SNSD won at the MAMA awards 2011 I saw your smile.
 


You were so happy and rushed to the stage while holding hands with Tiffany.
 



I was proud.



You always thank us SONEs in award shows but do you mean it? Do you know what we are actually doing for you and SNSD? We are working our asses off. K-fans are even doing more and more. Without fans idols are NOTHING. Fans have every right to be upset. And you know that. 



We all have the right to be upset. 



I totally understand why fans refunded the singin in the rain tickets. 
 


I would do the same. 
 


I wouldn't want to see you sing Baekhyun. 

 

Neither would I want to hear you Taeyeon in ANY case. 




I will sound rude and mean but you two became singers to sing. To became famous to be supported by fans who will unconditionally love you. And not to date and cause heartaches. Yes I know you HAVE the right to date and like I said Yoona and the others are. 



But do you know the difference between Yoona's case and yours?
 


Baekhyun and you were reckless. You know how crazy your fans are.
 


If you want your relationship to be public then don't let yourself get caught. 
 


Use SM for that. They will publicly announce it and I'll tell you that LESS fans would have gotten hurt. 
 


At first I was angry but still protected you when my friends spoke badly about you two. 


But now I'm too hurt to baby both of you. 



Don't apologize Taeyeon. 



You look pathetic like that. 



Be the strong SNSD leader I know and write it all out. Tell them that you would want to have the support of your fans. Tell them that you are old enough for relationships. Tell them that you like Baekhyun, why you like him. 
 


Make us fans UNDERSTAND



I won't talk about the instagram posts since I will end up cursing you. 

 


And you Baekhyun? 



Don't ing hide behind a girl who can barely stand on her own feet.




I sound like I only blame Taeyeon right? 



Sadly to say I blame Baekhyun more. So much more than Taeyeon but he's a coward so I have nothing to tell him. 



At least Taeyeon bothered to communicate with her fans. 



Please don't tell me to be happy for them and that I should stop being butthurt.
 



I can't be happy if I'm sad.
 

 


And I'm not butthurt I'm honest. 
 



I still love Taeyeon and I still love Baekhyun



bye guys for now
 


bomi xoxo

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winterxglass
#1
I love you <3
choheelee #2
I know it's been a while bit I totally agree with this, I don't mind them dating (even though it does bother me a little bit), I'm annoyed at the fact that they allowed themselves to be caught. They let it happen and Taeyeon cried and kept apologising as if she had committed a crime. Dating someone is not a crime but the fact that they thought they could keep it a secret bothesr me. The moment you debut you dedicated your life to the fans, it's a harsh reality. You ever chose fame and fortune or live a normal life, they chose to become an idol and to work themselves to the bone. Once they agree to that contract, they have more or less signed their life away. They knew what they where getting themselves into. It may be a harsh, but it's true. I love exo and they are my bias group but so much is happening...Kris left and now Luhan is gone, what's next?
oxoxHOTTESTxoxo #3
What you have said/written is exactly how I felt(still feel)....your words are spot on and I am with you on every single words expressed...
I'm glad there are people out there with the same opinions as us...
you have earn my respect girl...seriously....
I give you 10/10....
KkaebsongFanLOLZ
#4
I AGREE 100%!!! that day I found out ALL my friends kept telling me. 1 rubbed it in my face. She says shes a fan, but she doesnt even know what a fan is. the word 'fan' is lace with words of hatred, that's why I'm a supporter, not a fan. I love Baek to death, I will forever call him my baby, but, he should feel ashamed. honestly, NO AMOUNT OF CONCEALER CAN CONCEAL THE PAIN. I still love him and Taeyeon, but they shouldnt date. I keep telling myself I'm happy for them, but I wont lie to myself anymore. Im upset, and I agree with you.
ainmuttalib #5
True enough. You have said it all.
unazucky #6
OMG someone finally said it.
I'm honestly over it already, but i feel like you're the only one who understand how i felt the day i heard about the news.
Karebear8801
#7
Girl amen. I love you and this is beautiful.
spacebigstar_
#8
sorry for the unfinished comment bcs god i accidentally hit the post comment button.
i wish aff has a like button so that i can like this blov ^^;;
that's all, thank you for writing out your opinion!
spacebigstar_
#9
hi i happened to see this blog and decided to read it ^^ and i couldn't help but thinking that we have the exactly same thoughts to this rumor/scandal wtv s it is. other 'mature' fan keep telling not to feel butthurt but how to? baek hurted us in a lot of ways. and it's just our opinion about this and not all opinions are positive. and not all fans can accept it as a positive thing.
sigh. i w
petitebaekon #10
I feel like there's something more to all this. I haven't pronounced myself about taeyeon bc I don't like snsd so people would always throw that at me and say I'm jealous blah blah so I don't talk about her but baek has been 'hiding' if this is all true he should come up and talk. when I lie and get caught I don't try to explain myself so baek what is going on? are you being honest or fake? I'm hurt, yes. I think their actions were reckless BUT I love baekkie too much to hate him. I feel hurt and betrayed bc idk what's true rn. and I hate sm I always have, I can't trust them in anything.
Belle_Irine
#11
I would really like to give you a hug right now. I love baekhyun too. GAWD ITS SO HARD TO SAY THIS NOWADAYS JUST BCOZ-



BAEKYEOL FOREVER!
jessaluegaoh #12
I hate baek right now because his so careless to do that :(
Hays but my bias his OH SEHUN <3
Thanks for speak your feelings. I feel sad for suho tsk.
kawaiiotakou
#13
oh my.. I COMPLETELY agree, amen.
Asiangirl_21
#14
OMG I love you! Thank you! Someone had to speak the truth! I thank u a million times!!
mysarahshikari
#15
I had a feeling too that this was all set up. This might be out of topic but have you seen the Baekmi (Baek&Bomi) moment from the dream concert? I almost believe in them but NO a few days after I watched the vids puff Baekyeon got caught. BUT at some point based on the proves(?) on ig and the couple items and a few dates (not their latest date on Taeyeon's car that was stupid who would date openly I mean that place screams obvious and open roof? really? -.-) their relationship could actually believable but I had my doubts. I bet everyone who against this relationship does. Oh and I'm totally agree w/ you about exo's period of time. I mean snsd debuted 7 years ago while exo's just 2 years. I mean why Baek? I'm not saying you can't date but atleast restrict yourself, set a bounderies first wait for a little more. Just like authornim said, seriously poor suho. I bet everyone already stressed out regarding Kris's case and now Baek decided to be careless. That's irresponsible. Fans are worried about your health because they thought you sacrificed yourself entirely on practice but no you'd rather tire yourself more by going out (I'm not saying this is wrong but you could do yourself better) w/ her. Regarding about Taeyeon's apologized and Baek do nothing, a coward as you've said. For me, Taeyeon had Sones for 7 years I think it is the right thing for her to do that but what she wrote it annoys me? I agree w/ you authornim. Why would they do that or not be careful enough if they know it'd hurt and angered their fans? Then again irresponsible. About Baek, hmm well I think probably bcos the company wouldn't let him say anything? As we can see exo's only debuted for 2 years maybe they still have no say in this? BUT then again I can entirely disagree w/ myself because Baek's is fearless right? Where's the fearless now? Defend your women baek. If exo's still have no say in this then why suho openly called kris's irresponsible? I have so much to say but lets just stop here