Do you guys ever had a best friend that different gender from you. Yes, I was talking about boy best friend.

I had one but these few weeks something wrong with us. I invited (few days before my birthday) him to hanging out with me and our other school friends. I texted him but he asked me "why the hell I should be there?". It’s kinda hurt me a bit. I dont know if its because his ex girlfriend is one of the members in my best girl friend group. But he did come. He seems fine. He even showed to his ex girlfriend a picture of me sleeping in his car while he was driving. (I'm tired with all packed classes)

He usually never talks bad at me that way. We always contact each other and he always be there for me just like the way I am for him. Few days letter, he texted me if I wanna go out because he’s out with a friend that I know. So I said its okay. I’m lazy to get out.

Usually on his birthday he will claim a wish from me. He said that with me wishing him are different from anybody else. So he insist that he wants me wishing him. He’s on November last year (Mine is MAY). I did but on my birthday, I wait and wait from him but he never texting me a wish. I gave him a chance until midnight but also there aren’t any from him. So 10 minutes before my birthday is over I texted him, I only wrote this.

“(his name)... there are 10 minutes left.”

But then he replied to me.

“what is it?”

I hurt with the content of his message but I still replied.

“You don’t know, it’s okay. I know you are having a complicated relationship at the moment.” I said that because on his facebook was mentioned he’s on a complicated relationship. Down there is what on his facebook. Dont mind about the bad word. He always like. Rebel kind of boy.

And he replied:

“What are you talking about? What relationship? You know I don’t have any girlfriend, right?” Yeah I do know that but what’s with the relay status?

“3 minutes left (his name). So whats wrong with your relationship on facebook?” I replied and asked kindly because he is my best friend.

“Everything is wrong. Everything. Please tell me what is it that I’m late?” he asked me back.

But the time is over so I replied:

“Nothing.”

He replied back. “Is it your birthday?” he asked me that after we being best friend like almost 6 years. We always walk home together after school and he always waited for me in front of my class even though he had scandals everywhere around the school. But his scandals always fighting each other but I'm glad none of them trying to get to me because I'm close with him. I dont know if they are blind or something.

And I only replied “No. You’re late. My birthday already over." That is how we ended up our messages. Then he never texting me since that midnight. Today he appeared all over the sudden.  Do you guys ever felt like a staging when someone is bored and looking for you just to wasting his time and when he’s happy with the others, he forgot about you fully?

He’s a dissipate type of guys. He likes to changing his taste on girls. But early of this year, he asked me be his girlfriend but I’m not  a girl who be in relationship with my own friends because if something bad happen, there will be a break up and it’s awkward to be back at the best friend category. So I kindly said no. he said he understand my decision. Sometimes he makes me feels like his best friend but sometimes he makes me feel like trash.

Right after he proposes me, at the same week he picked me up so we can go home together from my rent house. He even said that he interested in someone in a while, so at the moment I was thinking, he wants me to be his girlfriend just a few days ago and now he’s telling me that he likes someone. Can you see what kind of guy he is?

Before (I dont remember when), I had asked him if we need to pay for ultrasound check up. Don’t get me wrong. I’m not pregnant okay. Hehehe… it’s just that my friend had some sickness with her kidneys. But before I could ask him more, he turned serious and asked me to stop joking like that. It’s not funny and he grew mad at me. I said nothing but he still insist me to tell him the truth. I know he care about me but he doesn’t need to think that far about me. He knows what kind of girl I am. I’m a homey person and lazy to go out. Like a cave girl, I think? I don’t know.

But I really don’t know what to do with this friend of mine.

I had few friends (boys) if they had problem with their girlfriend they will look for me for some advice about why girls acting like that, like this, and whatever like I’m a woman counsellor. But they are fine. I still help them. BUT WHY THIS ONE GUY HERE WHO HAD NO GIRLFRIEND BUT MAKING ME CONFUSED WITH HIS ATTITUDE?

And today, I didn’t reply his text and he asked me “Are you mad at me?”

I don’t know what to do with a friend like him. Best friend? Is that title suit him?