Help...... Me?

So...... errrrrr.............. this afternoon, my mom has small talk with me.

She said I should change my facial expression because it's too antagonistic(?)

She said that how can I get a boyfriend if my facial expression is like that, no smile at all. I've become fine maiden already and all blah blah blah =_=

I was like..... my face is like this since born, so how can I change it? like really. I'm so confused now.

My face is naturally not friendly lol. I rarely smile. I usually smile to show that I've good manners, I smile to people if I need it ONLY. >//< (I'm bad, I know.)

I laugh if there is hilarious event. I laugh with my friends.

I smile or laugh sincerely when I was with my family member or my close friends.

I've tried to be more friendly and tried to always smileeeeee but it's too hard -_- I can't do it. I ended up put my face to everyone ._. I gave up already and now my mom told me about this problem again /sighs

She said I should start to smile often from now on, but how?

If there is no 'special' moment, should I smile or laugh? it's not like I'm insane or anything. smile alone like an idiot, right? XD no? okay...

Sooooo..... what should I do? how can I change my expressionless face? I'm not good at controlling my facial expression. so help me, please~ I need your opinion. pretty pwaseeeee ^-^ lol

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orenjicandyqt #1 Apr 21, 2014 04:19:46

kalo aku sih orangnya emang bubbly dari lahir xD haha. tapi aku galak juga wkwk. (eh ga ada yang nanya masa-_- wkwk) tapi coba aja bikin mood kamu selalu bagus. mulai dari bangun tidur kamu harus senyum :) senyum itu kan sedekah, jadi coba anggap senyum itu sama dengan kalo kita nolong orang-orang yang nggak mampu :) kamu orangnya tertutup apa nggak?

pinksnowflakes #2 Apr 20, 2014 07:55:39

y know, although you dont put on a smile if you're happy with it, so what???

a story told me this:
"Girls with the most beautiful smiles tell the saddest stories."

im sure u dont have this--->> "saddest story" hahaha. as long as you dont have hatred in ur heart, even if u dont have smile on ur face, u will always shine.. coz that hatred feeling toward someone can make people feel uncomfertable around you, although u didnt do anything.

and smile is not always showing someone happiness. many things can be hidden behind it.

im just comment.. hahajahah

Dubulge #3 Apr 20, 2014 07:46:40

Erm, there's no reason to change! At all!
So what if you're not smiling every second of the day
Theres nothing wrong with your face. If your mum cant accept that then somethings wrong.
There are different kind of people in the world, and different people are attracted to different things. Your expression won't determine if you have a boyfriend or not. It will be because of the person you are inside.

--cherryblossom #4 Apr 20, 2014 06:28:40

We're same, dear. My friends said I never put on a smile on my face and some of the guys in my college said that I don't smile a lot, makes them scared to get to know with me. Lol who cares because it comes naturally and I can't change it even I tried it many times. People called me as the 'Ice Princess' for the cold look that I have. Haha. Don't worry. You can't always force yourself. Everyone is different. They have their own ways to show their friendly side.

;)

asdfghjkldoll #5 Apr 20, 2014 06:04:51

we're sharing the same concern. people get scared of me, thinking i hate people. I tried to be lil bit friendly but gahd. it's so awkward -.-

VanessaWoods #6 Apr 20, 2014 05:01:42

I don't know. But I always laughed even at the smallest thing. Hehehee

Wonachan #7 Apr 20, 2014 04:48:20

.-. Idk how to help, I smile a lot it's creepy .-.

kimsfangirl #8 Apr 20, 2014 04:48:10

I have an idea!!
Why don't you start to smile in front of the mirror every morning?? Smile for 5 minutes in front of the mirror (ever morning and every night)
Well...My cousin was once like you and she tried doing this and the result is....TADA!! Her facial expressions has definitely changed and she got used to smile :)