Honestly, I don't really understand why people get so worked up by the news of idols dating. You can't hate on them because they have the rights to date and the hurtful truth is that, they don't know you.

Trust me, it's not that I don't understand of how you feel when you find out your idol are dating. I would cry if I find out my idol/bias is dating because it hurts yet I won't hate, why would I hate? Sure if the girl his dating is annoying or not much of a likeable person; I would dislike her  slightly but I won't be an anti who hates her all the time just because I'm jealous. We need to get some sense into our head because reality hurts, I know but it's the truth we need to live in. Sure some people thinks idols are just this manufactured images who's out there to make money for their company and to get popularity but it's what they want to do, it's their dream and they can do wrongs too because they're humans just as any of us. Like I said, what I really don't understand is why people hate on them if they date, heck, they're just like any of you, people with feelings. It's normal for them to date or hang out with girls; I'm pretty sure you hang out with your guy friends and had dated too so why get all pissed off? They have their own rights; as much as it hurts. Try to be understanding, you claim that you love them, that you're their fan but why would you hate on them just because they choose someone other than you to be theirs? Because THEY DON'T KNOW YOU. THINK. They don't freaking know you! They say they love you, of course they do, but as a fan, they love you, they love all of us because we're their fans. There's one day, either sooner or later because we don't know when they're gonna get married, maybe earlier than we expected. It doesn't matter whether the person is famous, or just another girl next door, a normal girl or a girl just like any of you because you can't choose whom you're gonna love, feelings can't be forced, it develops on its own, it doesn't matter who they fall for because always remember they are humans just like everyone else, they are not robots, they have feelings. One day, they're going to get married to someone that might not be us, sure if they get married to a fan; then she's the most luckiest person in this world but they will get married or have a girlfriend someday and we shouldn't hate on them because of that. Put yourself in their shoes, use your brain and think, stop being childish. We should support them no matter how much our heart hurts, because we love them, don't we?