any suggestions??

Hi everyone :) Well I nvr realise that I would also have this problem and I have already asked my friends abt this they told me to go for it but.......I am still contemplating on whether or not to do it or not :( Okay its a medium length story but I hope u guys could give me sum suggestions :) Okay here it goes. Well ice_coffee has a confession problem..... Well....I actually like this guy from uni, he is not in the same course as me so I dont really see him often. I met him this year in semester 2 at my maths lecture and sadly this year is the only year I will share an actual lecture or class with him....... Anyways, my main point is.....shuld I confess to him my feelings?? Should I tell him?? Wat im worried abt is that we are friends (not close close friends) but friends and like im scared if I tell him, he would avoid me if he doesnt like me (but my friends said like who cares at least u gave it a try beside u wont see him next year anyways, qont hav similar classes so just tell him) but I am a wimp I just get really scared and its my first as well....so I dont really kno wat to do?? As well this is the first time I have ever felt for a guy (besides yang yoseob lol) like my heart was thumping so hard wen I saw him in lec this semester (around week 3) ans then I tried many times to approach him but it was always wrong timing until week 6 I finally had the courage to talk to him!! It was really random and awkward but I DID IT!! That time my heart nearly bounced out of me I was so nerveous and shy and my face turned into a bright red tomato!! Well I kno im not the pretty one nor the smart one.......im just really a normal normal girl...... Sigh.....every time we talk im the actually one that starts a conversation so does that mean he doesnt hab interest in me?? Maybe right....... I dont kno everytime I think of it feel sad......but I kno I would regret if I dont give it a try but im just really scared and anxious......nervous and I dont kno......... Lol wouldnt it be easy if he asked lol.......but thats really impossible.... Anyways please leave me some suggest thank you Luv u all. (Sorry im using my phone so its all crammed up)
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B2utyful-Elf #1
Wow... I'm so happy for you! =) I don't really know myself... I actually confessed to the guy I like last year, my first year in uni. Every conversation with him was fun, and I liked how funny he was. I'm not sure if you should confess because when I confessed, even though we're still friends, there are awkward moments between us and I can't approach him as much as I used to. Before, I could talk to him whenever I liked, but it's harder to do now. I hope you make the right choice :) But I think, if you guys aren't that close, just plain friends, then maybe you shouldn't confess yet ^_^ Even though you say you're heart is beating fast when he's around, you still have a lot of people to meet in the future, it's possible that he might not be the only one to whom your heart will beat. I think that the guy meant for you, should come to YOU and not the other way around ^_^ Those are just my thoughts, but if you want to confess, go on :) But I think you should still keep being friends. Since you won't be with him the next year, see if your friendship will still be strong. Connect to him through texts or the internet. If your friendship will become deeper, great! Keep it up and let him see your charms, let him fall for you on his own ^^ If you guys still stay as plain friends, maybe you need to keep waiting. He might not be the guy, or it may take some time ^_^
BabeThao #2
you should go tell him , it's the best choice . cuz if he start dating someone , you will feel dpress and hurt .... and he will never know your feelings , so go tell him and if he doesn't like you than forget him than ... he just lost an amazing chance lol good luck fighting !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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