I really don't enjoy it

Being rude and harsh isn't a means of being strong 

I think strength comes from realization that although someone may do something that affects you negatively that they are human too, and doing the same back, or worse, or maybe even less bad than what they did, is hypocritcal 

People are so scared to let go of their harsh nature to realize that we don't need it if we just cared for each other

But maybe i'm just a dreamer