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I have a friend, a good friend of mine whose bf is treating her like... crap (for lack of a better word) 
Yet... because she loves him, she stays with him and hope he'll change. As her good friend, I wanna kick his stupid because he doesn't deserve a girl like her. But... I dont wanna unfairly make judgements and stuff. I hate to see my riends hurting. It pisses me off. I always tell them (although I'm not the oldest of the four) I am like the 'brother' (for lack of better terminology) of the group. I protect my besties as much as i could.
I just feel for her because unrequited love, one sided love hurts like . It leaves you feeling low and unworthy at times because it's not returned. In rare cases, you can accept what you feel but hence the word rare. 
I just had to vent that out because she's really hung up on him. I wish she would leave him. I'm sure there are many guys out there who's want to love her and appreciate her and treat her the way she's supposed to be treated but... again it's out of my control.

I hope tomorrow bring better for her. All I can do right now, is be her shoulder to lean on and a listen ear. 

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Soshi1590 #1
She is kinda of hung up on her feelings for him that she is ignoring his behavior.
There is nothing you can really do, until she is fed up with the way he treats her she will not leave him. Lets just hope the rock bottom she hits is not extreme.
You only have to look after her as much as you can and try to protect her from a harsh rock bottom. You are a good friend
eyelovegg #2
You're being a good friend :)
But in the end, all friends can do is cheering from the side like coaches do while the players are still not you, hope you can always be strong for your friend. Cheers! :D

Ps: i do hope the best for your friend there, ciao!
iya_007 #3
I hope ur friend will realize it and leave that guy.....awesome person thank u for being a wonderful friend for her.....she's so lucky to have u as a friend :3
Ingravida #4
Well... I already go through a similar situation with my best friend, what I did was painful for me, because I love him very much, but I was honest and told him that the boy did not want him, he was playing with it, using it as the backup option , I told him bluntly, because the truth is always the best option.


that's my experience, do not know if I help in something :S
MoonGG #5
Don't worry that happen to me too .. A lot
:'(
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