I commented this long at a blog post of my friend. Her post about XOXO Movement had woke me up and I finally see what is going on.

If sasaengs keep doing their lunatic and unacceptable s, don't be too shocked if one day Baekhyun or even also DO have their early retirements from idol job, which means leaving EXO, quitting from being a member of it.

Remember that once before the WOLF promotion was started, Yifan shut himself out of the idol life because he was too shocked and overwhelmed with the life of being an idol with too fanatic 'fans' (if they're still worthy enough to be called that) following him around. 

Do they really want to wait until EXO's members start to leave the group one by one and then disband? Until only Suho left in the showbiz as MC and Chanyeol and Sehun as actors? Until years later we only found out about Yixing's marriage or Luhan suffering under some sort of terminal illness? Until EXO only became a good memory in our heads and hearts?

I don't want to lose one of the only two K-POP groups I love and respect so much just because of some ing sasaengs. Please, I really love EXO, only not in creepy and inappropriate way like them.

Fans are supposed to be loving and supporting their idols, not messing with their private lives.

I'm terribly sad. And this is the very first time I care about my idol so much that I almost cried reading all the news.

And the XOXO Movement had cheered me a lot. At least I'm being reminded that there are still a whole lot of EXOstans who are still sane enough in loving the boys. If only we all could properly meet the boys and cheer them up, telling them that we are here to cherish them, we are not going to harm them, because we really love them and we want to make them feel proud of us and thankful for the love we have for them.

so sorry for this crappy speech .____.