I AM SO BOTHERED!!!

Hey, guys.

It's been a long time!

 

But I've been so busy because I've been studying; school is starting,

and to tell you the truth, I study during summer.

TT________TT

Yes, some of you might say that it's not good or I'm supposed to have fun,

but YEAH, I do have FUN!

A lot of fun, actually.

I write new chapters for my fic,

"Love is Patient, Love is Kind,"

and I go out with my family and go to Church,

and yeah, all those things I usually do...

 

BUT...

 

Something has been bugging me for awhile now...

 

Yes, I'm getting to the main point of this blog post...

 

and I just wanted to tell you that...

 

 

I'm worried.

Because of my cat.

 

 

He was actually okay before, I mean, I used to feed him and he'd sleep next to me,

he'd wake me up sometimes,

and of course, that made me happy.

 

 

But lately, he's been avoiding me;

he keeps on ignoring me and he doesn't respond to my touches.

He just walks past me when I'm trying to give him some food, and I hate it!

 

 

When I pay attention to him, which is most of the time, he'd move to another place,

and being sensitive and all, I'd take it seriously.

 

 

I don't know but I'm just really worried.

 

 

I just want to sob in a corner.

I actually cried because of him.

I love him and I'm afraid my cat doesn't feel the same.

 

HAHA.

You might be like,

"Why is she even worried? It's just a cat,"

but he means a lot to me actually.

 

He's been with us ever since the beginning of the year last year.

And when we got him for the first time, he was like a few months old; he was so small.

 

He looked so cute and fluffy and I just wanted to have him there with me all the time.

 

 

But yeah...

I'm really sad, honestly.

 

 

He means a lot to me and I just...

I just don't know!

 

 

I've tried a lot of times, and I even cried.

 

 

I just...I need help.

 

 

Do you have any suggestions? Advices?

 

 

It would mean a lot if you'd comment below.

 

 

Thank you for reading this blog post; I hope you didn't find it annoying or anything, I'm just sad.

 

-SHINeeJam501-

♥

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luvmyboo #1
Have you gotten another pet of some kind? My cat was upset after we had brought a kitten (he was a bit upset in the past when he brought other pets) he didn't allow us to touch him so we spoiled him again but he didn't like it still so we gave him some space. He's much better now but he hasn't really been next to our new kitten. P.s my dog is sick and I've cried several times because this dog never seems to not be in a life/death situation but now its been a while and tears will fade
cloudofloveliness #2
ah, I wish i had a cat too :/
bambampattanan #3
Leave your cat for a while It needs time alone, One day It will come back and play with you often again! ^^
Hello-T-ara #4
Maybe He has found his soulmate? Kekeke I don't know
MySeoul #5
i really don't know much about cats but maybe you should check up on him?? And spend time with him before school starts~~ (:
Jasmine_07 #6
Maybe he needs your attention more, I mean you've been busy and you might not have time for him, he wants you to spend more time w him..
chanicorn #7
maybe he's sick? :/ i don't think animals are that bipolar... you said it used to sleep with you and stuff. i think you should take him for a checkup or something, because if an animal is suddenly out of character it could mean they're not feeling well. take care!
bulling89 #8
was there a time where you ignored him for a while? i mean, maybe when he was trying to get your attention, you didn't respond to him? or if you did, it was not the usual way?
i have a cat too and i experienced what you did.
i neglected her because i was too busy with schoolwork. i even spout my anger to her when i was really stressed out by all the works piled up.
maybe now, he's just doing the same?
sheyla92 #9
I love cat too.. and I cried when my cat died... it hurts me a lot TT__TT

p/s : maybe ur cat wants some attention? lol
XxKonxX #10
I understand I have a cat too
And I've had her since she was born and raising her I babied her A LOT
I gave her so much attention and she got spoiled lol
But lately I've been so busy I haven't been able to show her as much attention so she comes seeking me out
She'll follow me and meow all the time when she sees me and ect ect

I think it's cuz you're going after your cat like every now and then let your cat come to you
If you tend too much to it then it might expect you to always tend to it and it won't bother

Ya know? I hope this helps ^.^
Sunshadow #11
Omg I love cats so much. I know what you mean about your little furball meanjng a lot to you because I loved my cat, and I cried so hard when he ran away. But one of my other cats got attached to me, so I love her too.

Often times cats avoid those who try to seek them out and give them attention and will run to those who ignore them the most. It makes no sense, but it's true. If you're busy doing something, like drawing, homework, or using the computer, there's a good chance your cat will come and plop himself down in front of you and sit on your papers until you realize that he is far more important than your homework :). Lol cats are funny.

Anther thing, if you want to see something ridiculously amusing, put a small box or piece of paper on the floor, wait for your cat to notice it, and proceed to laugh as he goes and sits on the paper or in the box. Like, they do it every time, even if the box is tiny, they try to make themselves fit.
AptonKey #12
Okay
1) are you pregnant
2) have you been around too many children
3)some cats have weeks off
4) these are like the only reasons I know
TheChuglyOne #13
Crazy cat woman here to solve all your cat problems (If you read this in a doctor ad voice, then I love you!! If you didn't, sorry for being weird!)

I have loads of cats that I love. Two of them, though, are special to me and are only really affectionate towards me. They snub everyone else OTL

My cats go through periods of unfriendlyness (I need spell check!). They're like teens sometimes even though they're 12 and 6 and I own the mum to one and I've had the other since she was a little baby.
They like space. If you leave them alone and give them space, yet still show them affectionate by occasionally them as they go past, they'll appreciate it and he'll come back to you, don't worry :)
He's around a year, right? He's like a hormonal teenager at the moment xD

Have you played with him? My cats are old, but they love playing. If that toy has cat nip in it, they'll go haywire! My cat tore a big toy that had cat nip in it on my bed :/
I came into my room and his face was covered in the stuff.
It's cat drugs OTL o_O
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