Please answer me honestly.

What will be your very first thought when you're so eager to do something or get something --or even dream of it,

but someone is able to get it first?

a) I'm jealous.

b) A.

c) B.

d) OMG congratulations, I'm really happy for you! God bless you and your family! 

Sure, some of you will deny that you would feel jealous if something like that happened. 

But let's just be frank, even though we're close to that person and we're sincerely happy for their achievement, there must be a little --even a tiny drop of jealousy. For a second, there must be a thought of 'Why not me?' inside your mind.

Am I right or am I right?

But see, not every type of jealousy is bad.

This is the list of my jealousy:

1. I'm jealous of other authors who have many subscribers and readers, therefore I've gotta write better stories and improve my writing skills in order to be like them, or even overcome them. (okay that's high but everybody can dream, can't they? :D)

2. I'm jealous of my senior who is selected to join the basketball all-star team and will go to USA. I promise I'll practise harder and improve my shooting accuracy, so next year it will be my turn.

3. I'm jealous of those who have come and watched SNSD's tour. Well, I'll keep praying and while waiting for miracle, I'll start saving money.  

Just skip that. Lol.

The point is, jealousy can give you motivation to do better, to achieve what others have achieved, or even more.

So don't be afraid to be jealous! As long as it makes you want to be better and does not harm you, and the people around you. :))

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