This blog is simply asking for advice.

I have a friend who is the most 4-demensional, sweetest, most love able friend. She always there for everyone and always takes the blame for everything even though its not her fault. Literally. 

One time when there was a problem of a rumor spreading out a close friend of hers had framed her about it and she just simply let it go and didn't take it out on the friend. Then when she was confronted all she could say was sorry in the persons stead. 

When it comes down to making choices she always sticks to whatever her friends and family likes most even if she doesn't like it. It's hard to please others but she tries her best everyday to please those around her. She even ends up apologizing if anything goes wrong. 

She even gave away her feelings for the guy she likes the most to her best friend. Just for her happiness. Her friend ends up with someone new and now the guy she likes the most wont even talk to her. 

But.., this blog is about comforting her. How do you comfort the person who has always been there for you? What can you do for them? What can they do for themselves?

this dear friend of mines story is....

She has a friend. (Best girl friend A) who likes her guy friend. She finds out and ends up giving him up just for her friend. She was afraid that if best friend A and guy friend didn't work out then he wouldn't talk to her ever again. But she took that chance anyways, continuing on.. Best friend A sets her up on a blind date with one of her fellow friends. At first he talked to her.. She started liking him bit by bit until she finds out the guy used to like best friend A. 

Every time she asks him to hang out with her he was always busy or didn't want to go out. He would respond with short messages and never seeming to want to continue the conversation they had. Best friend A tried helping them but it didn't work out. He would always ask her to hang out with him instead. Eventually best friend A started hating her guy friend she set her dear friend up with and then finally blows off steam towards her girl friend. The dear friend lets it go. She's done with him.. Or so she thinks she is. She still likes him but for the sake of best friend A she lets him go. She doesn't need a guy whom her friend of family will hate she. 

But the ending is.. Is she happy or not? 

What can she do when she cares too much about what people think of her? 

Why can't she just take care of herself?