Help?

 

okay so there's about a month of school left for me and i've been "friends" with this girl for about six months now. i have a close friend i just made at the beginning of the school year, and i thought that she wanted to be friends with this other girl in our class, so i acted like i like her and pretended to be her friend. a few weeks ago, this "friend" of mine really started getting on my nerves, and my actual friend, the one i'm close to had a talk with me about how she doesn't like our "friend." 

 

then we started to realize how we were both so stupid 'cuz we thought that the other one likes her, so we were all friends. now my friend and i really don't like her and we try to not hang out with her anymore. my "friend" is just too clingy. like whoa. ._. she knows that we don't like her and she won't stop bothering us.

 

my friends even told her, face-to-face that we don't like her, and she just shrugged, said ok, and left. later on i get a text from her saying how she's sorry and she kinda knew we didn't like her 'cuz we were kinda ignoring her and stuff. you'd think it's over right? i thought that we were officially over, and that we were just classmates from then on, nothing else.

 

well. 

 

it's amazing how wrong i was.

 

she's even worse now that she knows the truth.

 

 

1. wouldn't leave us alone for even 2 minutes.

2. just pops out of nowhere and acts all buddy-buddy with us.

3. went back to her normal self after texting me about how sorry she was, with a full explanation for her actions.

 

 

and the list goes on and on. i don't really wanna be specific about everything she's done, but i'll describe some stuff i just need to let out.

 

my friend and i have been enduring her iness (sorry) for practically a whole school year. we finally decided that we've had enough and we tried to end it, once and for all.

 

she doesn't get it.

 

or she just enjoys making people miserable that much.

 

one more month left.

 

one more month before school ends and i (hopefully) won't have to go through what i've went through this year.

 

 

one day she went on a trip while my friend and i didn't. what an amazing day i had with my real friends. ._.

 

 

anyone have any suggestions about what i could do about this? i know telling her won't do anything. ._. she already knows and she still doesn't change. i try to avoid her now and everything, but omg. she just won't leave my friend and i alone. we just want the rest of the year to ourself. is it that hard? 

 

she doesn't even like us. i know that. sure, face-to-face, she acts somewhat nice (can't say she's nice when she isn't really nice), behind my back she talks crap about me to my best friend, and she thinks i don't know about this. 

 

 

i mean yea, i talk about her, but i don't say the stuff she says. all i say is what she's been doing to me and how i don't like her. that's it. i've stated opinions about her. i never brought anyone else to it. and what do i get? she goes to my best friend and tells her that in the future i could be a cuz i act innocent when i'm not. wtf? i mean, yea, i know i'm not innocent, but i don't act innocent. and she tells my other friend how i think i'm all that smart when i'm not, to which my friend replies that i am smart, and my "friend" says you don't know her that well, she isn't smart.

 

._. yea um.. my "friend" is the one that doesn't know me that well. everyone knows that i don't think i'm smart. to be honest, i think of myself as an average person. i'm not that smart, but i don't fail, so i believe i am decent.

 

okay so i just want to know if anyone has any ideas about what i can do to get rid of her? i'm seriously sick of her. ._. 

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KarenisVIP
#1
okay...honestly, If i was you...i would just act like she doesnt exist! I mean, you have been ignoring her but you know...THATS NOT WORKING. ^.^ so...yeah. thats my only advice. I mean, she's only BOTHERING you and ANNOYING you..so to do anything like MEAN or like SABOTAGE would just be ed up and uncool...so,just try to not mind her or tell her seriously that you dont feel comfortable around her and to try to be cool with someone else. Or maybe even tell her what is it that shes doing thats bothering you and your friends....:)
You only have ONE MONTH left... either endure it...or just try to be nonchalant around her...i mean...shes probably lonely if you think about it...:/

HOPE THIS HELPED. ^.^ kekeke <3
Ms_P00h
#2
...I feel you.
I guess...just ignore her and find out what she doesn't like and do what she doesn't like..or if she has a crush take on her crush even if you don't like him...maybe she'll finally stay out of your way since she knows you have a way of hurting her in a silent kind of way...hope it helped.
Akashi_Seijuuro
#3
Avoid her, or simply tell her you don't like her in a frank or nice way.