Reading through blog posts from friends(sorta) here on aff. seeing misunderstandings unfolding right before my eyes, seeing words being misinterpreted, seeing words that are phrased to misunderstand. Well, I agree that not everbody's english is perfect, infact, no one will ever perfect any language for that matter, you'll have to dig through its years of history and study it in depth. But can we do it? Nah, boubt it. 

My english , seriously, I got a freaking B for my major exam, and I was crying buckets(because I was happy I even passed). 

But this sentence really irks me all the time: "hater's gonna hate"

Now now, nothing against anyone here (since it's not directed to anybody in the first place), just something I observed from aff users for that matter. When someone rants bout having discovered a hater, being all pissed off about it, that's bound to be this/these "friend(s)" who will go oh-so-deep : hater's gonna hate, just let them be, there's nothing you can do~

BUT BUT BUT!!!

If you do realised you're being hated on every single time, being ostracized and all for ages and ages, stop blaming anybody. Saying you're just being you and they can't accept it is... well, I can't put this into words... People can change, Human kind change for the better, make the hater's opinions about you change. I'm not saying that you have to "recreate" a whole new self, and try to impress everybody. Like I said, nobody is perfect, but everyone aims to be the ideal human being. I'm not saying you should stop being youreslf so as to get more friends, no, Life's a , yes, there's bound to be those dusty specks of itsy irritating people who just hate you because you're you, just because, but knowing some of our bad habbits, we should try to ammend it and improve on it instead of making things worst.

I've come a long way, gotten myself more enemies than I could count, but ranting just because of that, I don't think so. Stop saying you're happy you got a hater, you're not. Stop lying to yourself. Don't explain after your actions, you move on. Stop being stubborn over minor arguements just because, it's really tiring after a while and what's the point? You might be able to get your views/perspectives across, but you earn yourself more people who dislike you. Yes, supporters are awesome, having a huge fanbase that agrees with everything you do is even better, but we, as human beings still have to change or learn to move on, stop being childish people, life isn't just about explaining and ranting over a minor issue, toughen up your spine, hold your head up high and just don't give a . Move on and improve, show them you're not that simple, come back a changed person. That's all I can say.

(gosh, feels like I'm contradicting myself at certain point of this essay. And sometimes there's just no link in between. oh well. hahaha)

remonedo rants out~