I need some advice please read..

 

Hey guys~ Thanks for reading this. I really need help. I need some advice and I don't know who to ask...And since a lot of you guys are really nice I'm hoping you can help. So here it goes...my story...

 

There's this guy. He is sweet, nice, amazing, and everything I can ask for. I like him and he likes me.♥ I WAS happy. I thought everything was gonna go amazing! I thought I was the happiest girl alive! Every time I was with him he made me laugh he made me smile and when I was with him, I felt good. But it all changed. He went to Mexico for a month. He was coming back so I wasn't that sad. We still talked. He told me about his crazy adventures in Mexico and I would tell him how much I hate school and stuff. x) Recalling these memories make me smile like crazy. I really miss that. So one day I forgot what we were talking about and he told me something. He told me he loves me. I thought this guy was crazy. He only knew for like a month and he's already telling me he loves me? No. I didn't love him so I just said it back because I didn't wanna hurt his feelings. Now I'm the bad guy right? Well this went on for another month. He told me he loves me and I told him I love him. With time I actually fell in love with him. And when I finally realized it...I was the happiest girl alive. People told me he was gonna ask me out. And everyday I would wait for those words. But it never happened. So I finally got the guts to say to him this. This was our conversation: me him

"I'm not gonna wait for forever."

"Sorry"

"So are you gonna do it or what?"

"Idk"

"Is it because you don't want to or because you're too shy?"

"It's cuz I barely see you and when I do you're mad at me"

"Well look at the things you do!"

"I know but still"

"How are you gonna get me hopes up by saying I love you and ?"

"Idk"

"Ok that's it. You were never gonna do it and you never planned too."

"I was gonna do it yesterday but you were quite and you were mad at me."

"So what if I'm quite? That doesn't always mean that I'm mad or sad. And when I'm quite I'm waiting for you to start the conversation!"

"Oh well I'm sorry"

And then I changed the conversation. After this conversation we had another one:

"Do you really love me?"

"No I just like you"

"Oh ok"

"Yeah"

"Yup"

"wyd?"

"Nothing"

"You seem sad, what's wrong?"

"Nothing's wrong"

"Tell me"

"No"

"Please?"

"How are you gonna tell someone you love them and not mean it? And don't say idk as a ing answer cuz I don't wanna hear that."

"Becasue if I don't you'll get mad and this is what I'm talking about. You get mad over EVERYTHING!!!!!"

"If you would have told me sooner that you actually don't love me I wouldn't be mad but since you've been telling me for over a month of course Ima get mad!"

"Oh well I'm sorry for every bad thing I've done."

"You actually think sorry is gonna solve this!?"

"No"

"You're right it's not"

"Yeah"

"Ima go bye"

"Bye"

 

Who's the bad guy now? What he doesn't know is I actually do love him. And I don't know what to do. People say I should just let time pass and not talk to him. But I go crazy if I don't talk to him. I really don't what to do. Should I keep trying or what? Give me some advice please...

Thank you♥

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iBeautyBlossom
#1
You shouldn't get mad so easily ^^ I know it is REALLY hard, but give him a chance to explain himself first. For example ask him for his reason why he said he loves you when he later says that he doesn't... (BTW, how ____ed up is that?? He said he loves you first right??? TT__TT sorry xD)
If he gives you a good reason, then try to understand it and tell him you need some thinking time first before you continue talking to him... If his reason is unreasonable and stupid you should consider letting your feelings go... He should watch what he says when he is with his future girlfriend... When he says something he doesn't mean, it's because he doesn't care OR he is super afraid of your reaction.
This guy seems like he loves the phrase "idk"... Change that habit immediately, or he will keep talking to you like that and you want a real answer right?
To be honest, I can't really say much apart from that since I don't know how that guy's personality is... Sorry if I was a bit to blunt in the above mentioned advice :)) I'd love to help you out more if you need me ^^
-notyourself #2
*sigh* if he doesn't like you back you guys can still be friends :s don't stop talking with him, really, that's sad when happens :'c *experienced it already*