This Makes Me So Upset

This was posted by someone on tumblr, so all credits to him or her about their opinion.

I will post snipets of their opinion. It involves Jinyoung and a drama kiss scene.

 

"Well, I don’t know who knows about it, I personally read this morning that Jinyoung decided not to film a kiss scene that was offered to him because of Banas.I have to admit, I have really mixed feelings about this.I think it’s really nice that he cares about their fans so much and he considers their feelings but in the other hand I feel like it’s too much.It isn’t the first time he did something like this, think about that dream team thing and there was another one if I remember correctly, when he searched for someone he played a game with on their fancafe and the person had b1a4 (? or something related to them) in his/her username then he later apologized that he didn’t have any hidden intentions just wanted to find the person because it was something that made him happy. (but correct me, if I remember wrong)

So yeah, it isn’t the first time and I find it a bit scary.Yes, scary, because it’s like he can’t do anything related to girls because there are always these jealous fans and they will about it because ‘oppa is theirs’.Even though I know that he probably doesn’t really mind and he willingly does all of this but still…The fact that he feels like he has to deny an offer like this for a drama is kind of… You know, it’s not even real it’s just acting. I don’t even know what to say.

Everyone can tell who knows me and my b1a4-fan side, that they are my favorite group and Jinyoung is my favorite member from the start yet I don’t find this really right.I know that since they debuted ‘just’ 2 years ago he really doesn’t mind and I also know that he really-really loves their fans yet I am worried that as time goes by it will get worse.Now he may not want to have a girlfriend but later he will.But then some of the fans will be already like ‘oh, he likes us the best, he won’t have one, he always puts us in the first place’ and I’m really scared that it’ll happen for real…Maybe I think too much but I can’t help it.He is my favorite too and I really like him but I won’t cry a river just because he had a kiss scene.And I won’t care if he has a girlfriend or whatever as long as he is happy."

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My opinion?

I hate this.

I hate that Jinyoung can't do what he wants to.

He's a grown man and shouldn't be held back by fangirls jealousy over this.

I mean, if he shot a kiss scene, I can't say I wouldn't be a little sad, but that doesn't matter to me.

I will continue to support him and hope that his career flourishes! I won't be hurt by his actions, but will smile and hope that he is doing well.

I can understand a fan's jealousy, since Jung Jinyoung is the only, and I repeat only, idol I will ever get jealous about, but seriously, he has his own thoughts, aspirations, and will. He can do what he wants and shouldn't feel tied down by BANAs.

BANA's are fans. Fans support.

I will continue to support what Jinyoung decides to do, but he shouldn't feel pressured by fans. I hope he continues to do well in the future.

 

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sarangjinyounghalbae #1
about this.. yes, jinyoung decline the kiss scene, right?
but the concert where there are a lot of girls dancing on him(although i don't know if there are fangirls who cried about this), he didn't apologize, right? i'm not asking for his apologies, but, the way the fan post about jinyoung, it's like she's saying that jinyoung always apologize in everything he does that can make fangirls jealous, in short, it's like he's spoiling fans(actually my sister told me that, the spoiling part) maybe the fan just... i don't know.. umm...
anyway, i'm okay if he got a kissing scene, i maybe sad but i can't do anything, right? it's his decision..
besides he's working too much already, we, fangirls should concentrate more on his health than jealousy..
:DDDD
b1a4bana4ever
#2
I love jinyoung alot and my heart will literally break when i see he has a girlfriend, but if thats what majes him happy:3 I kinda get sad wen i think about him having a girlfriend. WHY CANT HE JUST LOVE GONGCHAN!!! also thank you jinyoung oppa for thinking about ur girlfriends (banas) feelings towards this kiss i love you!! ^.^
ifrieedriceey
#3
Bam. You pulled the words right out of my mouth. ;A;