Hi. YB here. I have a question. :)

I  have a question.

What will you do if you have a loved one, but you have a very weird family that still engages in traditional arranged marriages, and then they take you away from the one you love and force you to marry someone?

I just wanna know what's inside your head.

Thanks for the answers.

 

- YB :)

Comments

You must be logged in to comment
yeojaboy
#1
@purplekpop
hihi. i just want some answers :P
oh, why was it okay to you? o.o
purplekpop
#2
WHOAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
WHOAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA
ARE THEY DOING THAT TO YOU?
Because my ex went through the same thing, broke my heart but it's okay.
Aish. Aish, don't let them do it to you.
Please.
yeojaboy
#3
hahahahaha the best answer goes to you motherpabo. XD
Lizzzy12 #4
you already know my take for than. act gay/lesbo! XD :)) and run away. lol! =))
yeojaboy
#5
wow. thanks for the comments guys! :)
i appreciate it ^_^
Rizu-Q #6
thinking about arranged marriage, I never experience it anyway, since my parents are kind of independent persons (Even their marriage was forbid by my mother's sisters)

but, If I were 'this' person, being separated from my beloved, then I prefer to obey my parents than fighting my love...
here, I tied my heart to my parents for my whole life, but less-than-22year relationship could break this tied?
I dont think so
mrsb2st #7
Ahh~ i think this is a very tricky question with many parts to it~ :/
Part of it depends on how the other person feels~ the one that would be your spouse~ If you think you could be with that person, maybe it would be a good idea.
Also, how devoted are you to your family? If they're not open to the idea of you marrying someone other than who they've picked out for you, then there could be a lot of discord~ They might even kick you out of the family~ hmm, well... Idk if that actually happens... But it does on movies!

AT THE SAME TIME! If it someone that you really love, then it could be worth it. I think it depends on why they're setting you up with that person. Is it for a business deal? Or because they think that person would be good for you? So many marriages end up in divorce, maybe it's better that your parents find someone for you if the reason is the latter one~

AHH! This is a really tricky question~ Like other people said... Maybe talk it over with your parents and go from there?

I want to say that no matter what, you should be with the person you love, but....what about your family...?

Ehh.... I hope this helps. :/
sehunsatan
#8
Well, maybe I'll talk to my parents or let my boyfriend settle it with my parents ~ I'm agree with yukki_chan , is there families who still do that arranged-marriage stuff :D
-Just my point of view-
Yukki_Chan
#9
lol ~ little like a fanfic XDD
i'm not sure but probably i'll take my bag and just run away with the one i love so we could be together ~
or settle the whole thing with my parents ~ that a marriage without love is like being in jail for life and if they really love me they have to be happy with my decisions ~
but is there families who still do that arranged-marriage stuff ?!? O__O