And now you really ARE my unni...

So I've known you for about...uh...how many years now? At least five, probably more, and I don't think we've ever actually done something to celebrate it! I mean, I think last year was the first time I actually gave you a present. This is quite awful of me on my part: your birthday is meant to be a special day, but I've never really acknowledged it, other than to write a meaningless birthday wish on your Facebook wall. 

So I shall take some time today and reflect on the good times, which you do a good job of reminding me of with your homemade cards filled with anime pictures, which always make me feel bad when I look at them, since I'm a lousy gift-giver.

In the beginning, we discovered a mutual obsession with Tsubasa and discovered that in terms of dominant versus recessive traits analyzed in science class, we were twins. This was also the first time you introduced me to Asian music- I still listen to "Shuo Ai Ni" and start doing the Macarena during the interlude. 

Later on, we became fans of Fahrenheit, suffered through cold Tuesday nights in marching band, and discovered a song whose music video makes us cry every time. We struggled under the evil grading system of the harshest English teacher in existence, and came out of it with the ability to write something decent in the few hours before the sun rises. That was also the first time we exchanged stories- and I still remember marvelling over your creative writing story. It wasn't crap, no matter what you say; it was simple but emotional, and I wished I could do the same. 

And now, we've discovered K-pop and fanfiction and I think we've grown closer than ever. I really value your friendship and your willingness to listen to me rant for hours about things that have nothing to do with you. If I had to listen to myself complain that much, I'd probably turn on "Bonamana" at full volume just to drown me out. 

So Happy Birthday, unni. May this year be better than the last. ^^

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nalaboja
#1
Though sometimes part of me is embarrassed that such a great portion of my young adult life has been spent channeling efforts and energy into this fandom (be it Youtube, Twitter, AFF, or just the awesomeness of Suju in any form), at the same time, it's brought out the best, I'd say, of us. Our relationship and all the things that stemmed from the many, many conversations we've had since that faithful day you told me you liked Suju (Feb 11, 2011 by the way XD) has progressed to a much deeper level than that of merely two teenage friends with nothing better to do than fantasize about celebrities. I mean sure, we did that, but we’ve also produced very tangible evidence that there’s just so, so much more to our relationship than just that. It’s just no longer something that can be summarized with a few words anymore. Or at least no less than 2000 characters, because I hit the limit about a paragraph ago.

Sorry for rambling forever. I told you I can’t word things as eloquently as you :P

Cheers! To ‘Hope’ and ‘Dream’ ^^ To our past, our present, and our future(years spent with Suju LOL/shot) ~
nalaboja
#2
Seriously, words cannot describe how touched I felt when I read this. I already gave you my immediate reaction, but a birthday wish like this deserves a proper reply as well! It's not something that's demanded; it just inevitably flows out...:

Exactly one year ago, you started calling me 'unni' because for the next few weeks, we "twins" were temporarily 1 year apart. One year later, you are still the only person who uses any sort of Korean suffix with me, and personally speaking, I like it that way. As "Koreanized" I may appear to be around everybody, suffixes are generally something I only keep in the realm of Fanfiction (specifically, when dealing with Suju), because I just can't bring myself to call anyone else 'unni' or 'oppa.' But for us, hearing you call me 'unni' has seemed like the most natural thing in the world. I'll have to keep working hard to earn that sort of title, haha. Even though I'm pretty sure you're the more mature one in this twin-ship :P

You summarized the highlights of our memories, so for the sake of space, I won't do the same (:P). Over the last... could it be 7? years, our friendship has had its ups and downs, but definitely, over the last year and some months, it's reached a much deeper level than how it used to be. Or perhaps it's because I no longer remember exactly how close we were back in 8th grade. But I know that as I look back on these memories in the following decades (zomg, DECADES) to come, I definitely won't forget these moments.