Tell me one positive about your day :)

Or just tell me about your day :)

I'll go first.

So, while I was rewriting Royally Screwed; spoiler alert, highlight the following: Sora has ended her 7-year-friendship with Dara.

I started thinking about my past friendships, and it made me sad because I know what it's like to break up with friends. Conversations get staled. Plans get canceled. Life gets busy. But you make time for friends, so I reached out to one of my coworkers/friends and told her that I've noticed that she was always the one reaching out to me and it was time I took initiative. So we're going to make plans to spend time together as soon as my car problems are dealt with.

I'm in my mid-twenties, and making a genuine connection with someone is different as an adult. Many of my old high school friends have moved away, started families, or are people I can't connect with. But I think that's the thing about me: I feel very disconnected from people because of my past trauma. Royally Screwed helped me to channel my anger into my writing. But it wasn't enough because I was still self-sabatoging myself in my early twenties. It was difficult to unlearn toxic behavior. Today, I strive to only give out positive vibes. So, while I still have your attention, here are some positive affirmations:

 

36 Transforming Christian + Positive Affirmations - Paisley + Sparrow

50 Positive Affirmations To Calm An Anxious Mind - Zoella

Positive affirmations - why do they work & how to use them?– Bold Tuesday

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Moonzy
#1
Well, the fact that you popped back up on my feed made my day better <3



Overall, I can absolutely relate to everything you said, Cee! (Minus the fact that I'm in my late twenties). I've come to terms with a lot of my past trauma, did a lot of healing (with a lot more to go), I'm reaching out to old friends because I was the one who pushed them away; however, after 6 years, I've realized that we just don't vibe like how we used to when we were younger. So, I'm just focusing on myself, on my financial situation, I'm focusing on my physical health, and finishing up my schooling next week. I have an interview for a position at a hospital which makes pretty good money, so I'm manifesting good energy so that I can get this job. I'm just trying to tie up all my loose ends so that I can continue to thrive ^^



I hope everything is great with you. I haven't spoken to you in a long time, although I still pay attention if you post on IG (:
starmyst
#2
Aw, thank you posting this. Honestly its a time looking back at your past and comparing yourself to who you were then to who are now. Hoping for good connections for you and lovely and happy days for you too. I know a lot of my past writing had been some sort of form of escapism or just some kind of coping and it's maybe why I don't...write as much as I do now is because I no longer need it (even though I do still enjoy writing), so what I'm saying is I think that positive thing for me is I'm in a good/happy place. c:
sleepingprince
#3
I'm glad that you decided to take the initiative to be the one who first reached out . That's a huge step. Well done . I hope that your plans went well . With some effort and support , may your past trauma become your strength . You can do it 💪

One positive thing about my day , I am alive :)
prod_GLEE
#4
reading this blog is one positive i got for the day, truly inspirational !
Craazy_hippo
#5
awsome blog :D we should see more of these in the community