It’s weird being a fan of something for so long.
It’s been 10 long years since I became a fan of Kpop, 14/15 to 24/25. 
When I first started listening, I would get into fan wars. For me it was 2ne1 all the way, snsd didn’t stand a chance in terms of talent. I was extremely biased towards YG and didn’t like SM from the stories I had heard about super junior and tvxq and all the problems associated.
Now I couldn’t care any less on who’s better because I know what I like and that’s what matters to me along with the friends I’ve made everywhere I’ve been while rping or out and about. I may not be a mature human  but I have matured since I was a teen. 
I know that there are many immature fans who do as I did, who start dancing wars and troll and are generally cruel. I hope that any fans who read this can learn and mature, seeing things change within what you have liked and watched and listened because of such fans isn't a good thing at all.