Please I need advice

My girlfriend told me 

she want to indefinite break with me.

Because I'm never understand her feelings and I made to her not ok and angry and piss off and mad. 

I clearly know she won't come back to me

Im not good person but I really love her 

I swear my love is forever and But I can't do anything because she already left me.

T_T

Im give up for everything 

 

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franchcoffee #1
I understand and respect you and agree everything.
I’m sorry for your feeling not ok this one years and half
83LineForever #2
I did NOT say an indefinite break! I said an indefinite break from WHATSAPP, Zar. That's what I said. And I made it exceedingly clear that we were *still going to talk* and that you were *still going to be on all my social media accounts*.

I never said that I wanted an indefinite break from you or the relationship. I told you I wanted an indefinite break from WHATSAPP and from, as I put it, "constant communication". I tried as best as I could to explain my personality to you and how it is different from yours. I tried to explain to you that I don't talk to anyone else as much as you, nor do I reply to them as much or immediately when they message me, etc. And that I really am someone, for instance, if I take off of work, I want to sleep late and then not get a message until I wake up and message the person. Or if I am doing something, I want to come on later. Or anything like that. And that is not the way our relationship has been structured and you know that is true. You know that we have talked every available breathing moment regardless of what I was doing. Regardless if I had 200 plus emails at work.

And that is just way too much for me, Zar. It is. With my personality, it's too much. On the weekends, it worked well, because I am relaxing and not at work and just chilling and . During the week, depending on my job, it varied. If I take off, on the RARE day I take off, I want to sleep uninterrupted until I wake up then *I* will message *you*.

I mean, I would hope this would make sense?

Do you understand that NO ONE ELSE messages me as much as you do? Do you understand how much I have bent my personality for you because I know you wanted CONSTANT communication at ALL TIMES? Regardless of what I was doing?

Do you know how hard I've tried?

But I realized yesterday like, no, I need a break from THE CONSTANT COMMUNICATION. Because when you messaged me at 9:45 am US time, I hadn't even woken up yet, because I was off from work. And my phone buzzed several times and I looked down and you were messaging about how work wasn't good, you weren't feeling good and it's like, this is too much. This is a day off for me and I almost NEVER take off and you know it and it is too much for me to be getting messages on my phone in the morning before I have even woken up.

NO ONE ELSE DOES THAT. I am trying to make you understand this, Zar.

No one else, I am including my parents, would message me in the morning when I am off from work unless there was a true, real emergency. Other than that, they know that it is a rare day off and they are going to leave me be and allow me to sleep in.

So, really, it was just TOO MUCH, so that is when I said to you that I want an indefinite break from WHATSAPP and I deleted the app from my phone.

Yet, I have messaged you on Instagram.

I just don't want the communication to be EVERY WAKING, BREATHING MOMENT like it has been for over a year and a half!

Can't you understand that at all?
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