love?

Hello! I know I've been inactive for a while and I promise to get back to writing in two weeks after some work changes.

Anyway, I don't want to talk about that.

I have a question and I badly need your thoughts.

How do you know if you're in love with someone? Or please talk about the exact moment you realized that you're in love with another person. This goes with any context - whether they actually know or not, like you back, or you're together, etc.

I know this is a weird question for a person who actually writes love stories. Haha.

But I'm really just curious. This isn't for fic purposes, don't worry.

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2ndHero #1 Mar 23, 2019 07:23:37

you feel everything in her. happy, sad, hurt, dissapointing. all about her make u sensitive

godna24 #2 Mar 9, 2019 09:52:59

I don't have love experience but somehow I think is more of a subjective thing.
IMO it comes with affection as a start. You treat the person specially, what you don't treat you normal friends like. Somehow you will prioritize them over other thing(?).
Then for me it is the interaction and understand between each other throughout a time period. I don't really believe love in first sight, they are crushes yes, but not love.
So I thought about the difference of the love between when one person sacrifice for their crush if their crush love other. Sometimes I wonder if you really love them would you even let them go? Somehow I think love can only stands when you like a person and the person knows and like you back, then from there you go to love. It isn't love when the other doesn't even know right? Idk I'm just typing here and using as a sounding board to my mind, tell me what you think.

glances #3 Mar 7, 2019 14:59:55

When we want them happy although it doesn't have to be with us?

jjongshoe #4 Mar 7, 2019 14:46:26

Well, in my case, it took a long time to figure out the difference between crush and love
What starts off as a crush kinda blossoms into love, depending on how long you know the other person

The exact moment I realized that what I felt was love, was when things didn't feel weird, and I could talk about stuff that I normally wouldn't
I'm someone who doesn't get comfortable with people easily, and I keep a lot of things to myself
Oh, and I also don't like people touching me randomly (with exceptions depending on my moods lol. It even goes for hugs)

So I had this one moment when my friend and I were just sorta leaning against each other and talking. I opened up about some stuff and he my head. It didn't feel odd. In fact, it felt nice.

That's probably the closest to love that I can feel