I need some of y'alls help

Okay, so, I have another account on here. My username is @ Bangtan Love 98 (no spaces) and I met my boyfriend on this website, and he is kinda..........creeping me out. we don't live in the same freaking country, and I am legit ten years younger than he is. We began our "relationship" as only friends, and we grew really close. This whole time I had no idea about how old he really was, and he didn't know how old I was. Heck, i had no idea where the mess he was from and of course he was really sweet and stuff, and so we naturally developed a crush on the other, and he asked me back in october to be his girlfriend, and of course I accepted. then... he told me where he was from and how old he is and he asked me where i am from and how old I am. soo... this obviously really creeped me out. I hadn't really thought that an online relationship would go this far, and he is and always has been really trusting to me. I've broken up with him twice already, but i always end up letting him back into my life. And now... he is talking about visiting me next year, and im really at a loss of what to do. I couldnt post this blog on my other account bc he would obviously see it and get really pissed lol, but i dont know what to do. he is talking about MARRYING ME, like WTF???? Ive literally known him less than a year and he expects to spend the rest of his life with me???? I dont want to break his heart because he really is a nice guy, but I just dont know if i can or if i SHOULD continue this relationship. I can't give him the things normal couples give each other, like daily calls and kisses and hugs and cuddles. And in all honesty, he isnt the most amazingly attractive person ever. and I know that looks arent the most important thing in a relationship, but he could be ugly and have a great personality and i probably wont want to spend the rest of my life with him. I mean, I've only got one life to live, and I'd rather do my life with someone I know I wouldnt cringe at every morning. He's great and all, but maybe I need to let go of him, and this time for good.

Please comment and tell me what to do.

Im scared af

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tumbleweed #1 Jan 24, 2019 22:21:29

I'm sorry but that sounds very rushed, especiallly when you two have never met. I would suggest blocking him tbh. Sometimes, it's hard to let go of people because of the amount of time you have spent on them, but it could be for the better.

TakuyaKen #2 Jan 23, 2019 01:32:09

tell him the truth love online is mostly impulsive ive been there better to be hurt now than to have empty promises

Zell_Fyre #3 Jan 23, 2019 01:30:28

please don't just for right now!! he doesn't seem worth it for the time being

dieukyungsoo #4 Jan 22, 2019 21:42:41

I don't know you nor him, but based on what you've just said, the entire relationship itself screams unhealthy and (if not already; potentially) toxic. If you feel creeped out by someone, regardless of the relationship the two of you have or how long you've know one another, I think it's best to end it and not look back. Sure, his feelings may be hurt, but if you're 10 years younger than him and mature enough to see and do this, than he's also mature enough to get over it. I'd say end it, and don't bother with the whole "we can still be friends" crap. He could be predatory, and I don't want to see something dangerous like that happen to you. Explain to him why you're breaking up with him, and if he throws a show about it, that's not only all the more reason to end things, but to block his . Don't let him get to you and in your head. Judging by what I've read, you see more cons than pros to this relationship, and you deserve better than that.