My first love got married

Yesterday I found out that my first love got married.

We were college classmates. We always seat next to each other because our seats are alphabetically arrange and we did that until 5th year. Eventually having mutual feelings for each other but never really had a relationship. After graduating we part ways, we live far from each other and got no time to meet up or something. That was 4years ago and then yesterday I found out from our classmates that he got married. I just felt sad and lonely that's why I'm posting this here, I don't want to post it on my social media accounts where our common friends could see. I just want to release it from my heart because I've been feeling down since yesterday.

That's it!If one sees this post can you give me some words of encouragement I really need it now :(

Thanks!

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solar94 #1 Jul 30, 2018 00:47:04

Hello lovely, sleepingprince is right, this will be a time thing.
What you can do now is be gentle with yourself, do things that you like that will cheer you up, find and talk to people that you trust.
Honestly, I know how you feel. When I saw the title of your blog it literally hit me hard in the chest because I know exactly how you feel.
I don't know if you're religious but God always has a plan :)
This guy is your first love but remember your last one is the one you're striving for. You could bump into him down the street tomorrow, who knows. Stay strong chingu ^^ X

sleepingprince #2 Jul 29, 2018 14:40:21

Time will heal. Maybe he's not the one for you in the first place. Dont be too sad. God knows best and He have better plan for you.

If he isnt meant for you , although you have him , still the relationship will not last. So better to let him go and be happy for him :) Stay strong.