Danger: Dont Be The Victim!

Hello, its Damian.

Regarding recent events, I'm here to share an experience that will leave me permanently scarred.  I dont want you to be the next victim.


Catfish- to lure (someone) into a relationship by means of a fictional online persona

 

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I met an identity here on AFF. ( https://www.asianfanfics.com/blog/view/1238987 )

After a messy, confusing break-up, I was weak and desperate for love(which is a human tendency). This person spotted it and slipped into my head and heart.

The person seemed to be there for me when I needed "him" most. He slowly gave me information about his identity, through stories of his current events. He very quickly sculpted someone perfect for me and that was his "identity."  At an alarming rate I fell for this person, and in a time of pain it seemed he was the only one there for me. I clung to him. He made me feel loved, everything was perfect.

That should've been my first sign. He was perfect.

The relationship escalated within a week. I felt such a strong emotional connection to this guy that the time felt like a month. I became dependent on his attention. He told me all about himself, what he was doing, and he'd be so loving and cuddly to me.

And then he sent me pictiures of himself. I shouldve looked into them, but I never once thought this person would ever lie to me. He was absolutely stunning. 

That should've been another sign that it was too good to be true.

He changed his location from Tennessee to Ireland and i didnt think much of it.

How could I? I was falling hard for him.

And he was catching me with an evil grin cracking the corners of his mouth.

 

random accounts began to pop up trying to cyber with me. 

it was weird; that stuff just doesnt happen on AFF

This guy took our relationship farther with his seemingly real words and memories

God, who wouldve thought he was lying through his teeth, to my face, no matter how much I told him not to hurt me, that I loved him and that I was too frail...

he still manipulated me

he got some action, that must be what he'd wanted

( https://www.asianfanfics.com/blog/view/1238960 )

But my Appa was there to help in the darkest times. 

I was living in a dream reality, my heart was floating, too fragile that the thought it could break was ignored.

I found out after so much emotional ties had been created to this person who called himself Sean, 

That there was no Sean. 

This girl was making this person up, like a character in a story book, pulling me into it. Every memory, every moment, every person and feeling was a lie.

She made EVERYTHING UP.

And when I found out I went into shock.

My heart couldnt take it, I didnt believe it at  first.

But the evidence piled up.

I had to face reality.

And doing so broke me into a thousand peices. 

I still cry everytime I see their username, remembering this person I loved, but also thinking, who? There was no Sean.

I feel like Sean died, and it hurts.

And I dont want you to be this person's next victim. 

Please contact me, SugaDaddy or Admin if you see someone acting fake, or trying to hurt you.

Dont go through what I went through.

I love you

                                                                                                             Love,

                                                                                                           Damian

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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Mimiih
#1
TBH I know how you feel ps I hope u get better
Wolfburglar
#2
That's terrible, I'm sorry you went through this experience. Please take care of yourself!
InfiniteWoonique
#3
I'm so sorry that happened to you... Dating online is risky business, but now you can learn from this. You may feel weak, but hey, now you're helping others who could be going through the same thing. You are strong and you can get through this.
dolce-peach
#4
omggg i cant believe....hope you’re doing alright!!
951304
#5
ah baby....*hugs* you can talk to me
i forgive you
dolligore
#6
Make sure you're safe honey. ❤︎