update about the blocking without unfriending me situation.

To sum it all up, they saw the post and unblocked me. I never blocked them, because if I had, then how were they able to see my blog and comment on it? If I ever blocked them, they wouldn't have been able to see any of my posts. Also, if I did ever block them, I obviously would have unfriended them first, so I wouldn't have had any reason to make my blogpost in this first place. And instead of contacting me in pm to tell me the issue they had with me, they decided to have a fit in my comments section, claiming things as if they know me. When in reality, the only time I literally ever interacted with them, was to say "you're welcome" when they said thank you the time I made a blogpost (which I now have on draft) to promote their gofundme a year ago. But no, instead they indirectly call me a in a comment on my blog and just have a fit for no ing reason. And I'm just thinking "when, what did i do to you???" cause I literally have never spoken to them outside of saying you're welcome. You call people who do nice things for you and then never talk to you again a ? You are actually crazy.

 

I looked at their blogs and yeah, they act like an ignorant brat all the time now a days. Even though they are 20 (I think?) and should be a lot more mature/considerate/understanding since they are the same age or older than a lot of the people they are replying to. Which makes me feel disgusting for ever even helping them in the first place. They are so rude and condescending that on certain blogposts people straight up tell them "I like your stories, but I don't like you as a person" so if that isn't a sign for me to get the away, I don't know what is. 

 

So I unfriended and blocked them, and now both of these posts are on friends only, cause I don't wanna deal with their over the top for no reason comments.

 

 

The whole reason for the post in the first place was to bring up the fact that when someone blocks you/you block someone, it doesn't automatically unfriend the 2 users and that seems like a flaw. I literally stated this twice. And after I posted the blog I decided to just go ahead and message nichiren (Jason, the site creator) about it, and he literally responded "Hi! Yeah I think that's an oversight. I'll take a look at it. I guess I figured friends wouldn't block each other or they'd at least unfriend first." so yeah, hopefully this issue gets fixed somehow. 

 

Because the ACTUAL reason I was posting the blog as well was to really tell anyone who had me as a friend, if they decide to block me, please unfriend  me so I don't get your blog post updates. Because I have 29,606 friends on here, and sometimes people don't like what I say or something, idk, and decide to block me? Cause it already happened with this person that I literally only ever spoke with once, idk who else has blocked me without unfriending me first. They had me blocked so I didn't intend them seeing it....BECAUSE THEY HAD ME BLOCKED. Like wtf.

 

And at the end of the post I said for people to pm me if they wanted to know who it was about. I wanted to see if this is something that happens often with this user like how I know another author on here actually does block readers if they don't comment or something. But with this user I deadass never even subbed to any of their fics nor did they ever sub mine. It was just a reply to their comment on a blog I made to promote their thing, and then they left 2 casual comments on 2 of my other blogs, whereas I never even commented on their blogs EVER OR PM'ed them ever! Like idk what I did, but now seeing they really do like picking fights for no reason, I'm just like, fuuuu, stay away. Plus their logic that they use when arguing with people (bc they really cannot speak civil or calm, they just treat everyone as if they are dumb or irrelevant.) is so flawed and entitled and stuck up their own in persisting that they are right and everyone else is wrong, that I don't wanna even think about having a 1 on 1 conversation with them because it would just be a waste of time. But, the thing I took away from this, is that I should always remain humble, never persist in saying I'm right when I'm actually not, and just in general not be like this wack user at all.

 

Also, I haven't been this frustrated by someone in a long time, so it really got my adrenaline rushing, and I've been wanting to get back to updating my action fic M.A.F.I.A. so now that I was pissed off today, I remember how being mad feels and I have new confidence in writing that story. So that's a good thing I guess. Always look at the bright side lol. 

 

In conclusion, to adequately describe how I feel about this user, I will take a line from the infamous tana mongeau's iconic quote: 

"I'd be genuinely happy if you broke both of your legs and lost all of your subscribers." 

 

 

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4nia_4eva
#1
Does this person start with a p by chance?
neenakkong
#2
Those kind of people just need cake in their life. Some people are very rude like that.
Elleally
#3
This is so ed up!!!!
SHIN33ee
#4
Authors block you if you don't comment? really?!?!?!? Damn, son, you best not be shy.
dry_petals
#5
When I’m mad I also get a lot of inspiration, guess you did get something good out of this. Well, thank you for informing us about the blocking and unfriending thingy, it’s really helpful.
ramen1
#6
A lot of users are relatively new on AFF and even those who arent still make silly mistakes. what I want to say is that maybe he/she didnt even realize the mistake while doing it, and then was to embarrassed to say anything. Then again even if he/she did it on purpose then well i find it necessary to "get rid of" anyone (almost anyway) that makes my life miserable. life is too short ,you know. Im happy you found a solution to your problem; you dont have to mind people that make you feel unhappy.
naimiestrella #7
I’d be genuinely happy too! (*^◯^*) that line tho!
bangtan_genius
#8
That person is so effing immature.
I’m sorry you had to go through all of this :(
RockabillyHippie
#9
Damn, people be wildin' XD Wth is that person's problem? XD
samasbananas
#10
YOO, I love that Tana Mongeau quote. Her beef with iDubbbz gave me life.

Also, I'm glad you got your muse back for M.A.F.I.A. because I really enjoy reading it
purple_rain
#11
The quote was a bit too much though :P
Peachhhh
#12
Lmao petty petty petty with tana's quote. But im actually glad u got your muse back :) u go.