We made it to September. Now, members of many kpop fandoms, prepare to have your minds blown by the epic comebacks of this season, I, for one, will definitely die through this comeback, but you know what? I'm going to enjoy every single moment of death as a few of my favorite groups and soloists will make their comebacks this month!!!

How are you guys?

Good?

Bad?

Terrible?

Great? 

I hope I can make your day a little brighter with my blogs, after all, the only reason why I am continuing this series is because I love making others happy, and I want others to be happy. Instead of reminders today, I have something else planned, so I hope it's alright. 

I am noticing that a lot of people seem to be busy these days, so I only have five reminders for you!!!

1. Everyone deserves to have a friend who will love and care for them unconditionally. Yes, I mean, that YOU DESERVE IT.

2. You also deserve to rest, and not overwork yourself, because we're all different and precious.

3. You're perfect the way you are

4. I'll always root for you even if I'm not here. Until I leave this earth, I will support each and every one of you guys with everything I got.

5. Accept compliments and love yourself because you guys are more capable than you think you are and even if you fail once, as long as you keep trying, there is no doubt that you will win and that you will succeed.

I just wanted to say that everyone on this site seems like genuinely nice people and that you guys shine inside and outwardly. Honestly, I've made so many talented friends here, like the GRAPHICS TEAM of AFF...HOW THE HECK DO YOU DO THAT???? Like, every time I see a new graphic, I feel my mouth just drop wide open at the sheer beauty and effort put into them. Not only that, we have tons and tons of amazing writers here who write like they have a direct intimate connection to their words. STOP SAYING THAT YOU GUYS ARE NOT GOOD AT WRITING BECAUSE HONESTLY, YOU GUYS ARE SO GOOD. Some of the writers on AFF have made me feel the pain of the characters that they write about. Others have made me laugh with their character interactions. I honestly look up to every one of you guys, so please, never think that you are not worth it, or that, you are not talented because you guys are. 

Yesterday, I went to check on one of my friends on this site, and I saw that she deactivated, my heart honestly stopped for a moment...because that friend is so nice and so caring. I know deactivating an account is your choice, and I will definitely support your decision to do so if you want to, because, after all, I'm here to support and root for all of you guys!!!

Just please know, that you will be missed and that you definitely will not be forgotten.

Please remember that happiness should be your number one priority, so take care of yourself and never stop running towards your goals, because believe it or not, there will be people rooting and waiting for you each step of the way, obviously with me being one of them!  

You guys are beautiful human beings, perfect in all your imperfections, and I want to say that I cherish and love each and every one of those flaws because that is what makes you human, and that's what makes you guys so beautiful. Alright, now for the special part of today's blog, this is a little message from me to everyone here, just reminding you how great you are. 

What are leaders? Am I one?

So many people of this world associate the word "leader" with lofty and powerful people who have a lot of impressive achievements, but I wanted to remind you that you, yourself are a leader. Did you know that you are making history every single day of your life? Yes, you are making your own history, and nothing you do is insignificant. You may feel like what you're doing is small compared to the business leaders, but small things add up and become big. One may feel that whatever life they're leading is insignificant, you're wrong. Your life is important, and there definitely is a plan for you even if it is unapparent at the moment. Being a leader may equal to making differences, however, do the differences have to be big? No, they don't. They can be as simple as walking up to a person who seems down, and offering a hand and making them smile. You made a difference in that person's life, doesn't it feel great to do that? 

There are so many unsung leaders in this world, and that makes me feel very sad. For instance, your teachers; the janitor, the people who make you food, your parents, perhaps the other people in your life makes a positive difference in your life. Tell them, and thank them because that will make them happy, and making others happy will definitely make you happy. 

Just saying a compliment or an extra thank you to a person will make their day, and just like that, you have made a difference in someone's life for the better. A compliment does not cost much out of you, but the outcome or the effects of them are huge. 

So yes, all of you guys deserve and are in fact leaders. Leaders of your own life, and leaders that can potentially make another person's day.

A lot of you guys ask how I am this positive, the truth is, if me being positive makes others happy, then I am willing to be positive, and perhaps sacrifice myself if it makes my friends shine. I am willing to be that person that will sacrifice themselves and make others happy even if it means that I won't, but honestly, making others happy makes me happy. 

Never feel bad about making choices that MAKE YOU happy. Honestly, if it makes you happy, why should you feel bad about it? If you want to cry and eat, then cry and eat. Remember that you are worthy of self-love and that you are perfect, unique, precious, and beautiful. 

Advocate for yourself; tell others how you feel, yes, I also mean your parents. Advocate for your choices and make sure that you get every single drop of love and attention you deserve. 

In the end, I want to tell you to do things that make you happy and safe. 

So, I hope you liked the little portions there...haha

Whenever I read a comment about how my blogs made someone's day of made them smile, I smile. I smile because my at-times-not-so-good blogs actually made someone happy....and that makes me happy!!!! 

As long as I still have people who need these blogs, I will continue them, I'm sorry that they're not as often or not as well-written as before, but please, take all my love and whatnot from me, because I promise you guys that I will always love and care for you guys unconditionally. I may not be perfect, and I may not have much to offer, but I promise that I will do whatever it takes to keep that smile or happiness on your face or heart. I promise this to everyone, even if you aren't my friend yet, or even if we haven't talked yet. 

Well, until next time, bye!!! 

I love you guys all so much.

I genuinely appreciate you guys, and I hope you realize that.