I am here today to ask a real question. I really need to get this out of my head. 

When did everything become so triggering? Every small thing now become a cause for fanwars. Like... Why? We used to be a big family and now there're just so much hates going on. We used to be so chill and cool with each other. Wars do exist before, but at least not to this extent. But now kpop fandoms just keep having wars with each other. That just keep increasing. And honestly... That become a reason I distance myself from kpop a lot more than I used to. I still love kpop, but I stop joining fandoms because the amount of immaturity and chaos in there annoy me. I DID NOT MENTION ANY FANDOM. I JUST SAID THAT IN GENERAL. SO IT APPLIES TO EVERYONE. Even idols are very cool with each other. They treat each other like best friends and all... So why can't fandoms do the same thing? All these ing fanwars are exactly the reason why kpop fandoms keep being looked down upon by non kpop fandoms. They see us are monsters. Sure we have strong love for our idols, but all the same time it's that obsession that makes our name ugly.

Antis, you hate an idol. Sure, I get it. Nobody ask you to love anybody. You have your opinion and that's that. Voice out your opinion, but you don't have to keep provoking fandoms and bash their idols. That triggered them. And then you call them crazy for fighting back. If you really hate them, just don't listen to their music, don't bother looking out for them and whatever . Block their social media, even, if that makes you happy. 

And fandoms. Be mature please. It's about time we grow up. I don't care how old you are. I'm pretty sure most of you kpop fans today are no older than high schooler. MOST. I mean, I was a high schooler too when I become kpop fan. But please. Let's be really mature. Stop bashing each other. Stop creating fanwars. Love your own idols as much as you want and don't judge others for loving theirs. Stop comparing idols too. Each and every of them have their own charm that makes them unique. So stop asking them to change or whatever .  Let stupid people be stupid. Don't ing join them and stoke wars up even more.

And regarding idols dating or befriending one other. I keep seeing fans getting triggered when they see idols tagging each other on social media. Especially among boys and girls. Okay. Shut the up and listen. IDOLS ARE HUMAN. If they want to date then that's their problem. You are in no position to say anything. They are not yours and let's face it, one day they will date and they will get married because that's life. It goes on. Be delusional with your ship and all, that's fine. But stop starting wars and rumors. And LGBT DO exist among idols though they might not say it out loud becase there are really no reason to. Theur uality is their problem. Straight or gay is their problem. If you love them, love them for who they are. Enough said. And one more thing. SOCIAL MEDIA ARE CALLED "SOCIAL" MEDIA FOR A REASON. They are there to socialize like you did with your folks. So stop getting all triggered when they become close. You should be happy that they are comfortable with fellow idols and not the other way round.

Okay I'm done.  

Sorry if any if those things above hurts anyone.

But that would probably be good. 

It was meant to be hurtful so yeah.