Hi,

I don't know from where come from this desire for impossible, forbidden romance, I have. Why do I need terrible things to happen in my fics to feel they will be interesting? I kind of believe that people reading fanfiction wants and kinks in what they read. Do I want to shock people with my fics?

But, I like those things, and I hope I write them well.

There's the desire to not censor yourself in your writing, but at the same you have to take responsibility for your audience and moral rules. You can't write mindlessly, or then you'd have to keep it to yourself.

There's warnings and only member access, but there are ways to go over them. You can't control what others will read. If they will read your tags or the warning well. You don't know their age and their knowledge of the language they read in. So many things can pass the net you think you set before publishing.

I just wrote a fic, and after searching on the web, because I was unsure about how to tag my story, I came to doubt if it was good. As needing it it was, it's tiring and a deception. I thought this story was so good, but maybe it's utter crap, because moraly dubious. Even with warnings, and with tags, it can be, because it's the content the problem.

Anyway life don't compete with fanfics, I wish that'd be clear.

But maybe a confession is needed. When I began to read fanfic, I liked( and still do) hardcore kind of fics. Where happened and where the imbalance in power was clear between the characters. There was no intern desire to live to fics in real or doubts this was fiction, but it's still influenced me, in what was right to write in a fic and on my vision on , that was not a truthful one. 

Here, I'm writing this blog because I'm afraid I'm having a second revelation but on minor/adult relationship in fics.

Still, I published the fic after minor changes. I think I'm selfish in that way. I still want to publish it, I still want it to stay the way it was at the core, because I believe I'm doing no real wrong. I guess I would need people talking to me about it to rethink again about this fic. (here the link if you're curious: http://www.asianfanfics.com/story/view/1268018/tattoo-exo-sebaek-minorbaekhyun-minoradultrelationship-youngadultsehun

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The articles I found on the net on the subject were interesting, I leave the links here, if you're interested!

links to blogs articles on minor adult realtionships in fanfics and fiction:

1. http://stackedbooks.org/2014/03/crossing-line-adult-teen-relationships.html

2. https://ladygeekgirl.wordpress.com/2013/02/23/ualized-saturdays-underage--in-fanfiction/

Hope this was useful or interesting!!