How to persuade my boyfriend?

In which my boyfriend is easily jealous, which kinda annoying yet it's a bit cute (im talking rubbish), he didnt let me to hang out with my best friends.

My best friends since elementary school I mean, all of em are boys. N I seriously wanna go bcoz this is probably the last time we could meet each other before college starts. 

I had been pleading n such, but all he said is "no" "nope" "you cant"

So how to persuade him?

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hollyeu #1
I have a friend like you. She can't hang out with me and my other friends anymore just because of her possessive overprotective psychopath boyfriend (Lol I'm being exaggerating). But yeah, her boyfriend is really ed up. We hate him though. EVERY TIME. Every time when we ask her to hang out or simply staying after school together (back then when we're still in high school), she'd say she couldn't join us and said that her boyfriend would be extremely jealous and they will eventually fight later. Heol we are all girls, though! Why would he be jealous? Just like your case, he really has a problem with trust. He would just say that my friend is cheating on him and meet other guys intead of hanging out with us. He's so ridiculous, really.
But I can understand your frustration. My friend has told me numerous times about her wanting to break up with him since he's acting like he's the one who controls her life, but the thing is, he was the one who doesn't want to. He said that my friend can't break up with him. Can't. Omg isn't that sounds creepy? =.=
Like others, my advice is, you shouldn't listen to him if the things you're doing is legit not wrong in the first place. Being protective is sweet lol haha but being overprotective is.. something that I couldn't accept if your relationship will only get worse day by day.
AmySuju #2
He is just a boyfriend of yours not husband. Shouldn't ask for his permission in the firstplace but then again, you should have already left. He need to learn to trust you. this isn't healthy, im afraid for you.
LizardsRaccoon #3
He doesn't really have the right to tell you, you can't. I mean those are YOUR friends. You should tell him he needs to learn to trust, because if you wanted to leave him for your friends, you would have done it already!
Also be careful because boyfriends telling you what to do or not allowing you to do certain things are the first signs of an abusive relationship.
Ji-Hoo #4
yeah... why won't he go with you?
and he should learn to control himself... jealousy, good or not, but he should learn to trust you as well
satbranch #5
Yeah you can ask him to go hang out with you guys★
SPiRALS-and-TWiSTS #6
Go with him? Idk
Soushi #7
ahhhh that's a hard one , but i guess you could always tell him to come with you !!! i don't know it's you'r call
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