Cheating: need your advice my aff friends please
Hi guys sorry I havent update all my on going ff. Im so stressed this past few weeks. I caught my guy cheating. They keep sending dirty messages, sweet talks to each other behind my back. Ive got access to his phone he doesnt know it. So while he's sleeping I check his messages and viola the girl not only send lots of I love you but also sending photos of her almost , she's just wearing her bra and undies. Sending photos of her . Im so disgusted with what Ive seen. So i took a screenshot of there bull messages and save it somewhere. I tried to make him confess but he keeps denying it. So I sent 1 screenshot and he was totally speechless . He keeps saying sorry to me I havent forgiven him yet. If I did the same thing to him will that make me an awful person? im so hurt. I told him to block the girl in his fb but who knows he might unblock her again go on with his cheating spree. When I caught him he asked the girl to make a viber acct so thats where they will communicate. He gave him his number the girl did the same but I change the number so He'll be contacting the wrong person or the number doesnt exist at all.
Im trying to bring back the best of me being so sweet to him. We're living together if you wanna know. Every relationships has its ups and downs. For 13 years There are times I felt unappreciated for the things I did to him. Im trying to give him my best but still look what he did. He cant even hold my hands while were walking he told me he's not used it. But we're holding hands when we're still dating but now, not anymore
Please tell me....If I cheat on him like what he did to me will that make me a horrible person? I badly what him to taste a dozed of his own medicine. I dont know what to do anymore. Before Im not that possesive of him because I trust him but now I wanted to tie him up around me. Because I love him too much and it hurts to know he's cheating on me.
the girl is from another country I wont say which country but she's Asian as well. They used to work together. The girl really did look for him in facebook just to flirt and tri to steal him from me. He has a crush on her before
what do i do?????
thanks guys
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