I guess it's not only a guy and girl, it's everyone, no matter who it is it hurt. I'm not sure, but I think all the years I've spent with my special someone was just misplaced feelings, but now I don't know what to do anymore.

Hugs you.

Omg I experienced that /sigh/

I feel you, I'm totally not into guys at all right now because the one guy I had a thing for was a pig.
He tried to hook up with me on my 21st b-day, when his girlfriend (that I didn't know he had) was in the next room.
And he dragged it on, texting me and calling me all the time for like 3 months after. Openly flirting, always showing up when I would visit friends.
Then I almost lost that whole group of friends because he wouldn't fess up and tell them what happened.

ing jerks, I tell you.

This has happened to me twice and first time it happened he just so happened to say while introducing me to a friend, "She's so awesome, she's like a sister."
The second time we were hanging out a bunch and when I asked if he liked me he snorted and went, "What? No."
So yeah I understand, I hope this didn't just happen to you and if it did it's okay, but your feelings are hurt and here's a virtual hug for you: \(^_^)/

It goes both way . Girls and guys both should take responsiblity of their own actions. Dont give hope when its not true. Btw hope that you'l feel better soon. Time will heal. Stay strong

I haven't experienced this yet as I'm still young, but I can understand the pain you are feeling. I hope all the girls out there stay strong, and I hope all the boys out there don't do anything stupid. Hwaiting! Himnae! ❤

Oh dear lord I feel you on so many levels my dear
Recently got into a situation where a guy flirted with me and told me he had a thing for me in order to have me as a backup in case he didn't get with the girl he was really interested in
And once they got together officially he completely discarded me, talked about me to most of our mutual friends and pretended he had never shown any interest in me
Boys are dumb >o<