Please help me

I know most of you will ignore this but I just feel really lonely. I just found out that one of my best friend's only became friends with me because she felt sorry for me. She said that she's tired of hearing my voice and she's glad she's going away for school. She doesn't want me to contact her anymore. I feel so sad and everything seems pointless.

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SuhoLoverDebo
#1
are you okay? I know it is 2 years late but I want to know if you are okay?
Aerxia
#2
whatta bish whatta bish whatta mighty good bish.
Ok girl im sorry in advance if i'm sounding blunt here but here it goes...
1) nothing is over she's the one who is a terrible person and you should feel sorry for her for missing out on having a good person in her life
2) be bitter about it for as long as you like! "moving on" is not as easy as it sounds, cry, curse, scream, sulk all you want you deserve it after investing your time and love towards this person, repeat what she said/did on the day she told you she didnt want anything to do with u anymore until you get damn tired on thinking/hearing about it you wouldnt want to think about it anymore and you get move forward from there
3) wait for something new to come, it doesnt necessarily have to be another friend, but perhaps a hobby or just something you enjoy and can spend your time on don't feel pointless about anything, you are still young and take this situation as preps for the future because you are going to be standing on a high place where people like her will never be able to look up after this. You will be ok i promise :)
xx
ImperfectStranger #3
From my point of view, she is not your friend.. I feel sorry for you.. try make more friend..
tegoshii
#4
Sadly that's how people are nowadays. Fake. All you can do now is forget that b**ch and move on. Know your worth and find someone who actually enjoys your company. What goes around comes around.
OppaJjang98 #5
Okay, it's my fist time ever leaving a comment on your blog. I just had to!
Listen, people like that aren't worth it. I can't easily say "Just move on" because it's not something that can be fix like that, and it's not easy. But that's what you have to do eventually. You cannot let yourself become sad or depressed because of someone who didn't know how to appreciate you. Don't let ANYONE distract you from reaching happiness. Things happen for a reason. Believe me, in a few years you're gonna be thankful that you were able to discover who that person was in reality, before it was too late. Just be yourself!!! Those who truly love you will stay by yourside and appreciate you for real. I know it must be upsetting and you might feel betrayed, just let it all out, and be happy again. Get closer with those who know how to value your friendship, with your family, etc. And show that person that you don't her to be happy. :) Cheer Up!!! I'm sure there's many people who love you!!!xoxo~<3
Diamondkai88 #6
Please don't be sad. Just because a friend has distance from you, you shouldn't feel miserable. What you need to do is to upgrade yourself, and prove to her that you don't need her. Maybe a new makeover like cutting your hair to latest hairstyles. Putting a fresh makeup. Change the way you dress to something nice and trendy. And lastly, make new friends. Hangout in cool and nice places. Upload selfies can make you feel better too.

Remember, no humanbeing should be treated like trash. Value yourself more. There is still long way to go. Still feel miserable? Maybe go for vacay. That will sure make you feel much better.
smirking-alice #7
Oh my goodness, who does stuff like that! This doesn't make you any less valueable, it just makes them a bad person.
I can't believe that this is true and It hurts me that someone says stuff like that!
Please don't feel bad, even though I don't know you in real life, you ARE a wonderful human being and screw them!!!
I agree with duviet!
If you ever feel lonely just hit us up and we are here for you ^^ Never forget that nice (truely nice) people exist and that one bad person should never destroy your mood like that.
Maybe they had a really bad day or week but even then; no one should do and say stuff like that!!!
We love you ♥
duviet #8
honestly, hun? screw them. I always tell myself, making friends is easy, but finding people to trust and cherish is hard. if she's that cruel to even treat you like that, then there's not even a reason to feel sad about it. I can imagine how much it must hurt for you to hear something like that, but don't be depressed over it. there will always be people against us and our nature, but at the same time there are also those few who will love and cherish you for who you are. so forget about that girl, because she's definitely not worth one bit or your sadness.
orangenhead #9
Well that one is a sad situation but things like this happen in life. We have to learn to live with it. I know that it hurts right now but believe me you will feel better day by day. Friends come and go. I am sure that you have real friends who are with you out of love. But it is so normal for you to feel lonely. You know what after some time you will realize that it doesn't hurt that much. Don't worry everything will be alright. FIGHTING!!!
junztar
#10
Wow! Seriously? Well change is the only constant u know? Everyone has their strengths n weakness n as friends, we should actually be complementing 1 another. If that particular "friend" said that, I'll just have to say good riddance. U need less toxic people in ur lives.
People will come n go n many others will replace the spot that your "friend" left. Don't change who u r to suit anyone else. True friends will love n hate you for what u are but they will never leave u or hurt u like that. Love urself first ok?
I hope u feel better soon ok? Xoxo *sending virtual hugs n kisses*
Kpop_lover4
#11
I honestly will say friends come and go... And as sad as that may be you still have your life ahead of you. Either way nobody should treat you that way and being friends with someone because you feel sorry is a bunch of crap. I sincerely hope you cheer up and don't worry about someone who you're not going see anymore. Also if you can come to me.... Or not. Whatever works for you. With love your reader
zan8901
#12
That's just horrible. Like sleepingprince said, time will heal all wounds. Hang out with family, treat yourself to something that is relaxing or you enjoy doing. I just wanna say that what that person did was disgusting. I know that may be a bit harsh but no person should do that to a someone, and the justification that they felt sorry is just ridiculous. I hope you feel better because that person doesn't deserve to have your tears. No person should have to go through that and it's crappy, fake people like that who are seriously why people have trust issues. What I'm trying to say, is I've been through my fair share of sh*t "friends" and it , but you'll get better. It'll hurt, of course, because you actually cared for that person but you need to take the time now to take it easy and try to move on. I hope this didn't come off as brash, I just really, really hate people like that. I do hope you'll feel better. <3
sleepingprince
#13
I think you should try have a hobby or two to filled your time :) Do some fun activities. You can also go do volunteering and meet with new people and try make new friends. Its okay to be alone. Sometimes you just need to learn and enjoy being alone rather than having the wrong friend. Time will heal
Minhwan14 #14
Ohh no cheer up dear :(