Unfair - is gender equality real?
Hello!
I know there were some eyebrows raised when some of you read this title but hear me out.
In the modern family both the mother and the father typically have jobs and in some ways when they come back from work both are tired.
Now my family is the inbetween... both my dad and mom work about the same amount as the work together. But when they get back home my mom continues to work as the cook and cleaner (and before my sister and I left home... teacher and care giver). while typically my dad would watch TV or just generally relax.
Now previously my sister and I would help out, but now that it is just my mom and dad is at home my mom has to do everything alone and my dad never helps... like really. My mom for the most part does not seem to mind. But now that I am back home, it really annoys me. my mom and I have been in the kitchen for about 2 and a half hours while my dad watched TV and played on his phone. it makes me angry that my mom would typically do this work all by herself.
When I said my parents are inbetween because my parent still have the traditional mindset of girls in the kitchen and boys at work. Which is ridiculous considering they both work. now I am not saying that my dad doesn't work hard. He works hard in different aspects just not at the same level that I feel my mom does. because the only time my mom typically sit down and relax is about 22:00 to 22:00. mean will about 5 my dad does not have any obligations. but at the same time my dad is the main driving force behind the business so some may argue that it's fair. but with out my mom the business would suffer also they work together for the business.
Bottom line is I feel that it would make sense that both party's be doing housework at home even if it is just a meal. and that would be a criteria for me in the future. As for my parent... I don't think anything would change... it's been this way for 21 years already...
Do you have any similar experiences?
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